Ladies, if you were dating a guy who was a virgin...

If you were dating a guy my age who was a virgin would that be an issue at all? Would you be hesitant to do anything sexual with him because you wouldn't want to be the one to take his virginity or because he probably wouldn't be good at anything sexual (at least not at first)?

 

I wouldn't think anything of it. I think the whole losing virginity thing is a little overrated, and he may not be the best, bu whatever. He'll learn.
And I say this, but I'm still a virgin, too, so I may have a different opinion from somebody with experience...

 

Doesn't mattter to me.

 

a lot of women would refuse to even consider having sex with a 23-year-old virgin, but if she's already dating you i think you're alright.

 

I would think it`s hot; especially since I`m a virgin too.

 

I wasn't a virgin when I started seeing my gf but I had only hd sex on maybe 5 seperate occasions. It probably wan't great at first but within maybe 2 months we were fucking all the time and she was always hving multiple orgasms (although she's pretty easy to get off having multiples on our first). At any rate I feel like I have some authority on the subject when I say 1. if you're dating he probably likes you enough to want to have sex with you and 2. he WILL get better with time.

In summation if you like the guy just go for it lik he was anyone else . Have a good ride

 

Why do you think that is?

Thanks for your response but I'm talking about girls dating virgin guys, not guys dating virgin girls.

 

I'minmyunderwear has been known to joke around in that manner. Hell, he might even deny that flat out. But you and I both know the women like that aren't worth your time. Umm... I mean, you know that, right??

I'm a virgin myself. I'm actually in my mid 30's. I'm not worried about it because it's really pointless to. And as you can probably tell form what the female posters have said so far, it really doesn't matter to a lot of them.

The most important thing is that you don't regret your first time, and that you and partner both find it to be a beautiful experience. That's where the focus should be in my opinion.

All the best!

 

I don't think I'd be dating a 23 year old, but let's say I was 25 and under, or I was dating a 25 or older male virgin...I'd be trying to de-virginize him...that's all. I think it'd be fun.

 

I just said I'm not interested in 23 year old virgins...but 35 year old 'virgins' sure...

 

well yeah, there really are a lot of girls like that. they do tend to be the dirty slut type that nobody really wants for more than a one-nighter anyway though.

 

no my gf had her experience a the time... I didnt have much so I repeat I feel I have authority on this subject

 

Ok I misunderstood.

 

I would feel akward honestly. I'm used to guys taking the lead and like to be guided in that aspect. It would be so rare to meet one here. In my community the men start having sex at very young ages. By the time they reach 20"s, they are usually super experienced as well as fathers too.

 

My mom's mom had this problem . My grand maw remarried (1950s - 60s some where ) her new guy had never had sex , she got him some books and mags. she said she did not want to teach him . desert rat

 

I would be hesitant to make sure he was ready.. I wouldnt want him to lose his virginity to someone less than special

 

don't worry. he doesn't give a fuck, he just wants to lose it.

 

I was a 22-yr-old virgin when I met my last gf. She didn't know she had taken my virginity until after it happened. Terrible first time, very awkward...but as everyone else has said, it didn't take me any time at all to get the hang of it and then we had great sex for several months.
Life is what it is, don't worry about "milestones" or achievements of any kind...just Be Love Now and it will happen when it's right.

 

Actually, I don't want to lose it to just anyone necessarily, I want to lose it to the right person.

 

You will. It's as simple as that.:2thumbsup::daisy::2thumbsup:

 

well, unless he doesn't.