I know for sure that I'm attracted to women. I love their bodies, their voices, etc., etc. What I'm not sure about is if I like men. I like the idea of masculinity-specifically having a "protector"-but I'm not sure if that includes masculine men. I like men's bodies, I just like women's more, and I don't see myself in a future with a man, mostly because all the guys/men I know are so crude/rude/plebeian-like compared to all the girls I know. Could I be a bisexual who hasn't met an interesting guy yet, or could it be that I just don't like men in that way? I'm so confused. ><
I choose the former. We're not all crude. Some of us are very loving and considerate. Grown men,that is. Not those that still act like little boys.
Hello ardentauthor. In my life, I love a sexy body (mmmmmm as many as I can get) - and most of them are usually women. God sure did make some great adjustments after creating Adam. That said, I admit I am not a bi woman. However, you can always find out if you are truly attractive to women by attending some of the social clubs near you (a swingers club would be easiest as most bi women who attend are very open about their sexuality). I'm thinking, until you explore this part of yourself, you shouldn't put a label on yourself. But I do think you should explore a bit.
I think maybe you are just not meeting the right kind of guys for you. You should keep an open mind about men but pursue women in the mean time. There is nothing wrong with being undecided, you never need to label your sexuality, it is different for everyone.
