Can`t seem to orgasm with any guy during oral sex.

So, I`m in a bit of a pickle. I`ve only came once with a guy while getting eaten out & it was when I smoked weed for the first time & ever got eaten out for the first time too. I can`t seem to get an orgasm; I get close, but then I just can`t get "there". I can have the best orgasms when I masterbate, but that`s it. What the hell is wrong with me? lol. :daisy:

 

You may need more stimulation. Try rubbing your clit while he's thrusting if you're comfortable with that, or he can stroke it himself with his thumb while he's in there. Works for my wife almost everytime but she has usually come once from being eatin already. Some girls just plain have a hard time gettin off with intercourse and need the oral.

 

I can't even imagine how a woman can orgasm from giving Oral without having some kind of simultaneous stimulation on at least one of her primary erogenous zones (such as her clitoris), as the mouth is not exactly known for containing any sexual nerve receptors. Any orgasms reached would, surely, have to be mentally (or drug) induced - but, of course, that's the logic of a man's point of view.

 

she said nothing about giving head...

 

try having sex with girls instead..

 

I'm so very, very sorry to hear this. But you're only 17 give it some time and with the right partner I'm sure it'll happen.

 

Being a guy I can't say much here, but I can most definitely say theres nothing wrong with you at all. Lots of girls don't orgasm from oral, or even intercourse (cant believe I said that word, getting old ) I agree with oxy in that you are young and theres such a thing as sexual maturity and in time youll learn more and more about what works for you and what doesn't, what you need and what you don't need to get 'there'.

Just relax and have fun. Try some different things with it. Maybe you can hold out and not let guys do it for a while to get yourself, and them, a little riled up, or maybe in a naughty place like semi public if you find that fun. Playing with him while he does it, different positions, that kinda thing. See what you like. Something might spark along the way. Maybe something risque, or maybe the opposite in just needing to be more relaxed.

In any case, don't let it worry you. You dont have to orgasm every time, as long as you are enjoying the rest of the experience thats great - the orgasms will come on their own.

 

Oh yeah - my mistake. Got misled by Frustrated's response.

 

I said nothing about her giving head either but sorry if i steered you the wrong way:sunny: