ok, ive know this girl(call her kb) for a few months now. when i first met her she was with some guy , they had been going out for a year or so. then they broke up. that was 2 months ago. now she is talking about how she wants to be with me & we've been dating (kinda). i realy think i love her but she is telling me to take it slow & shit. she says that she doesnt want to start a relationship but she doesnt want to lose me. i just need some advice & some1 to talk to
umm... don't guys do that alot? "it's okay to have sex, but let's not declare this official or anything yet..." anyway, i know i've done this before... she's probably scared of emotionally attatching herself to you.. perhaps she's confused, or disheartened b/c of her last long-term relationship... but that doesn't mean she doesn't like you.. obviously she is attracted to you and likes you... just wait it out.. maybe try talking to her but don't push her... she'll decide when she's ready, what she wants to do... (if you really get fed up, then an ultimatum may be in order... after all you can't wait forever...)
