what is wrong with me?

so here it goes

the other day, i got it in for the first time (ive been sexualy active for a little while now, just hadnt had full on sex yet) and heres how it went, pretty fucked up if you ask me....

so i was pretty drunk, so was she and we were about to get down to it, and i couldnt get hard... so we played around for a while, as i was still trying to get it up, which is the weird part, because i usually get hard from any little encounter with a girl (this can be really embarassing) but when i finally DID get hard, i had a hard time getting it in, as she is small and VERY tight, and i was only half there. but i finally got it in and we were going at it for a while, when all of a sudden BAM, my "frenulum" as i think it is called, rips completely all the way, and starts pouring blood... so i jump up like wtf, and run to the bathroom. long story short i am out of commision for a week or two.

my question is, wtf happened there? i can understand the frenulum thing, its always been tight (same with my foreskin), but why couldnt i get hard? was it the booze? i smoke, and im only 18, so i dont think tats the problem, anyone have any thoughts on this? i have no clue what is wrong with me....

and also, i pulled a peiceof gauze off it earlier, and a little of the scab came with it, and now theres this clear liquid seeping out of the tear... any thoughts? its not thick like puss, but now i notice my foreskin/ head arent as swollen...is it infected? :/

 

nobody? seriously?

 

Think you had what's commonly called "whiskey dick". Don't drink before sex and try again. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=whiskey dick

 

Yeah, you were just too drunk. It's normal.

I don't know what to say about your dick bleeding though. I'd go to the doctor.

 

yeah you might need to get circumcised if this becomes a regular thing. sounds painful, ugh. use lube next time.

 

Avoid the booze, eat oily fish such as anchovies, sardines wild salmon. Avoid margarine but eat lots of butter. Try spanking yourself or if you have a partner get them to do it.

 

yikes...my condolences..i cant even imagine what a tear there would feel like but im pretty sure it would hurt lol


i recommend keeping it moist as it heals...and polysporin or salve

scabbing cant be good there

 

yeah i'd go heavy on the polysporin - for moisture and to avoid infection.

 

did she suck your dick before you got in it? sounds like things might have been too dry down there.

 

i did go to the doctor the day after, just wanted y'alls opinions. and surprisingly, it didnt hurt until like a day after.
no, i dont need to be circumcised now, the frenulum ripped ALL the way down, so i dont need to be cut now... fucidine and cephalexin is what the doctor gave me. im almost good now.

and yes, whiskey dick was my first prognosis, maybe take ill it easy on the booze next time.

 

i dont think it was too dry, she got pretty sticky, i think the fren was just a bit too taught... my foreskin/frenulum has always been a bit tight

 

did the doc say that you might experience less feeling in your frenulum?

that's a pretty rough first sex experience.

 

hahaha youre telling me, i will always remember the on that made my dick bleed :2thumbsup:

haha, but no, i went to a clinic, so i dont think he really cared about telling me anything besides how to make it heal the quickest... but i will admit he was funny as hell about it, i thought it was gonna be akward, but he made the situation pretty funny :tongue:

 

Jesus.

I've never actually heard the word frenelum so I don't know what you're referring to, but that sounds horrible.

Seriously, I think you're picking the wrong problem to worry about. Your dick was pouring blood but you're worried about whiskey dick?

 

Don't have sex drunk next time, and don't try to get in when she isn't wet. Jeeze.

 

This whole post is exactly what I was thinking when I read this thread for the first time. :smilielol5:

 

its the sensitive thing just under the pee hole thats kind of like the string under your tongue :biker:

 

yes, it's basically the male equivalent of the clittoris,

LADY'S TAKE NOTE^^^^

 

im not as worried about that because its been taken care of. im worried about whiskey dick because i dont want her to think she doesnt turn me on or somethin like that

 

first times can be hard for some people to get it up, hell sometimes and I'm very sexually active, have a time getting it up while totally in the zone, maybe inexperience, or stress/unknown feeling topped off with booze (whiskey dick) happens, though the breaking I haven't heard of in a long while, but as an EMT I'd say just talk to a doctor about that, though the getting hard is just what a guy will most likely encounter here or there, in their lives, except those lucky bastards who never had a problem.. As I'm too fucking stressed to get it up and in for longer than 30minutes is a real killer.. makes her feel unsexy and sucks, I want to please her fully and myself haha, but just fix the bleeding/solve it, as some girls are really extremely tight, my girl first time was a finger made her cry, and pinky made her squeal in pain (which I didn't mindhaha I know I'm sick) anyways just should of got a couple fingers in for a while, then stick it in quick before starts closing again and go for it. The limp part was probably what I mentioned, though only has happened to me after 5-6 years of activity for these past couple weeks, but I feel my mojo coming back, and so just get your confidence back (whether masturbation or crude thoughts) and keep at it, but don't do it while you are scabbed, will make the healing take longer.