can two men be best friends and more and still be close

My best friend and I have been close for well over 7 years. We get drunk together and all hell breaks out, we have a blast together. One night we were driving home late and he was drunk he started pulling at his dick. He pulled it out I was driving and it was huge. He looked at me with this look and said he wanted me to suck it. I of course said no. But every night since then I have thought about it. what it would have been like to just reach out and feel it in my hand, or to have my mouth take it. Now I feel like maybe we could "experiment" I keep hinting around at it. And I feel it from him when he does things like rub my shoulders. Its making me crazy. I am afraid that I will lose a friend if I try.

 

no, messing around does not mean the friendship will be ruined. some friendships, yes, are purely nonsexual, but there are guys out there who get it on with their friends and it can even enhance the friendship. all depends on how open and intimate you're willing to be with each other. and it sounds like you both wanna go at it so just try it. if you don't like it you'll know and no-one will force you to repeat it. you can establish some ground rules before engaging in any sexual activity, since you're close friends. like both agreeing that you will keep it from affecting the friendship. sth like that.

and, yes, i've done it with a friend. and it was amazing.

 

Your environment is probably the key to this. If you live and belong to the urban, metro kinda environment, being sexual with your best friend is acceptable. No one is likely to freak out over it.

If you are stuck in a rural, conservative part, you want to thread very carefully.

It is a popular misconception that having something sexual will ALWAYS destroy the existing friendship. The introduction of the sex bit into the existing state of friendship is always a challenge. Good, deep friendships actually deepen with sexual bonds. Superficial friendships based on reciprocal convenience and perceived societal acceptance turn usually turn shaky and sour.

KD

 

I'd say go for it given the signs...