It's funny how I always come back here to decide major life decisions, lol, sometimes an outside perspective is best! Okay... I am extremely unhappy with my current living situation, I literally spend 90% of my time at home in my bedroom because I feel so much resentment towards my lazy, good for nothing roommate who seems oblivious to my current feelings. So I have decided to move in a year when the lease is up to Orlando from Jacksonville with my Florida best friend (I have a Tennessee best friend too, lol) Am I making the right choice? I know I am capable of moving into an unfamiliar place (I did it when I moved here) but I just want to know if anyone has any input or visions regarding my choice. I have basically made up my mind and now I have 11 mths to prepare myself... any advice or help would be appreciated! Thanks in advance! Peace and Love!
I would love to jump up and start fresh elsewhere. Your roomate has no respect & you're too damn young to be holed up in a bedroom. Relocate and live a little!
I'd LOVE the opportunity of a fresh start somewhere. GO FOR IT! I think you already know you're going to do it...
Actually Fingermouse, considering I pay the bills on time, work full time, am the only person that cleans the house and keeps up with her dishes, and takes care of the pets... I doubt it... the times I am not in my room I am cleaning up after her (cleaning the downstairs, kitchen, bathroom, outside areas, tending to the courtyards trimming trees, pulling weeds, sweeping, etc), so there is no question in my mind that I am NOT good for nothing and lazy... I am very responsible and an OCD clean freak to say the least and the only person that seems to care that things need tending to. She is the 32 year old woman who likes to club with 18 year olds, date 21 year olds, and attempt to cling to her youth instead of taking care of her responsibilities and I am just tired of putting my own happiness aside to take care of her! Sorry I got heated, I wish I could telepathically send you images of what I deal with on a daily basis then you would understand. She has a bit of a rebellious side and instead of doing the things I ask her to do she just ignores that they bother me, and I have talked to her about it before and a year later nothing has changed, so now perhaps you see the picture more clearly, all things considered...