Ok heres the short version. I been going out with my girlfriend for the past 9 months now, we used to be really sexual active until about 1-2 months ago i seem to have lost my sexual urge if that makes sense, i dont seem in mood these days for sex. I can't seem to get hard as much as i use to. My girlfriend gets horny and dont get me wrong i love sex and love doing it but i can't always seem to get hard. I have started a new job which means am up at half 6 in morning and dont get in till back of 5 at night, but dont know what else to do. Any ideas? Thanks.
Don't know your age, but there are so many things that could be the cause. Certain medications can be a big factor. You may have a health issue you don't know about. OR it could just be nothing at all and things will improve. Poor hubby, younger than I, always hornier than I, has had to take Cialis because of medication side effects. GOOD LUCK with fixing your "dysfunction". May you function as you'd like SOON! :sunny:
3 years ago I didnt have a problem getting it up. Sometime it would stay up a little longer then I wanted too but this wasnt with no girl either. Just sitting in front of the computer. But then one day it just stopped getting up or should I say had a hard time. I never worried about cause I didnt have a gf. So I didnt bother me. Until 3 months ago. It was get up but after 10 secs of intercourse, it would go limp. Just like that. I wasnt nervous at all. She is like, thats okay, we can try again tomorrow. So we tried again. Same thing. Then she said lets go to the doctors and get it looked at. I said okay. The doctor gave me Viagra and to go see a specialist. Which I need to see. And yes, me and this girl are still together. Even tho I have to take a pill to get it up. She even begs me to take the pill now. Told her cant rely on the pill all the time, but will find out what is wrong.