What a silly thing to have done fallen for an escort.

Cut a long story short I have fallen for an escort girl that I have been seeing since Christmas. It upsets me a bit cos it never really works out happy ever after and I wish it would. I never ment to fall for this girl it just happend. As there is no one els about I think why not keep seeing her as she dose me a really good deal for her to stay 2 nights a week at my place and we have such fun. I know that she is probably just using me and it is her job to make me feel special but every now and then she will do or say something that makes me think that she may really like me. She even got really protectrive of me the other day. She also knows how much I like her as she found out a month ago how much I like her.
I am on the look out for a girlfriend at the moment . Maybe she is the one maybe not. I not so sure. But I keep looking to find miss right.
I know that if you see someone a lot that you are bound to gert close to one another. Just how close is another story.
What should I do?

 

you should realize that you're paying her to act like she's interested in you. sorry dude, it's her job.

 

You are probably right and as said I am on the look out for a girlfriend so whats the harm in having some fun till I find Miss Rght.

 

Pull a pretty women and show her so much charm and passion that she'll leave her job being an escort, and come to light of love with a real man and a real relationship.

 

You could ask her if she feels any thing for you or she is just doing her job . There is nothing wrong with doing a good job , even an escort . There are other women in this world . desert rat

 

We have chatted a bit about my feelings for her and she said that you never know what might happen. She also said that last night did not feel like work at all. She also said that if she got a boyfriend she would give up escorting. I am just having fun at the moment and have not had this much fun for a long time even my last girlfriend I had last year was not this much fun and it is not just about sex with this girl. The sex is just a part of why I like her. I am not getting my hopes up and am looking for Miss Right. There are other girls out there. You just never know what is around the corner. It is just that I havew a small bit of Aspergers and so that means I find it hard to ask a girl out on a date.

 

you could talk to her about her being her bf.

she could like you, and maybe it would work out.

don't be surprised though if she is just digging for gold.

as don't be surprised if she continues to work behind your back or otherwise cheats.

you could ask a relationship councilor, I suppose

 

yeah ive heard of escorts dating people theyve worked for, but dont expect them to quit their job.

 

there's no harm in having some fun, but there's also no fun in crushing on someone you can't have.

 

You should ask if she does some kind of marriage/relationship deal. Might be costly, but you'll be getting quality fucking service.

 

Its not a fair world as I have a small bit of aspergers that mean I find if hard to ask a girl out on a date that I fancy. Now I have got someone I really like and she is an escort and it will probably just a bit of fun and nothing more than that which is not fair for me as I have now got feelings for her and it will probably end in tears for me. One part of me is say stop this this is not real. The other part is saying we seem to get on well and have fun together and I have no one els at the moment so what harm can be done so stick with it. Then the last 2 bits of me are saying this is her job she is ment to make me feel wanted and loved and the other is saying she maybe have feelings for me lets see where this will go. So said it will probably end in tears for me.

 

I really hope it works out for you, but be careful, it is her job to make people feel special. Have fun with her and enjoy each others company but try not to put yourself out there to much as it may not end the way you wish.

 

I saw her on Sunday night and I was so close to bringing up the subjet of we should go out together that I had to stop half way though saying it as I did not want to ruin the night. She knows how much I like her. We did sort of talk about it but not really. We shell see what happens
My friend was in love with with this female friend of ares for about a year and he pushed a few girls away that came on to him cos he was so much in love with this friend who has a boyfriend and not avalible. Another friend and I had to tell him a few times to just move on then just after Christmas he met someone els and is now in a proper relationship.
So you never know what is around the corner do you. I just hope it will not end in tears.

 

Awww sweet. I feel for you! But I think you should keep schtum- if she fancies you, I'm sure she'd tell you because like you said, she already knows you like her! And tbh as an escort, she probably gets guys proclaiming love for her all the time. So she may not take you seriously. Or maybe she likes you too, but knows she can't do anything else because of her job. Who knows?
How old are you by the way? What made you turn to escorts?

 

you have hit the jack-pot brother...you must do whatever you have to in order to keep this girl...and here is the reason why..

..living off the avails of prostitution is a great life...tons of drugs and cash...the occasional back stage pass....you get to sleep in till noon...i am envious

 

There must be a few other people in the world like me who are are in love with an escort girl and like me not just in love with her cos she gives good sex. I can't be the only one. I am amazed that no one has said dish her and run. I did think about dishing her a month ago and I took her number out of my moblie then she text me and I got it again but it took me till the other day to put her name and number back into my speed dial as I do not want to get hurt but at the same time want to keep seeing her for a bit longer.
I just like to say We are both in are mid 30's. I have had a few girlfriends before. I do not make a habit of seeing escorts I have only ever seen one or 2 before and I am not a big fan of having a one night stand. All I want is to find a girlfriend to settled down with. I know that this is not the right way to find Miss Right and I only ment to see this girl the one time as a Christmas present to myself as I am single and had just split from my girlfriend a few months before Christmas. I know this will probably have to end and it might end in a bad way for me. I am on the look at for Miss Right and hope I will find her soon.
I just really put this post up as I just wondered if anyone had an experience like me before or if they were dating an escort girl or if they fall for an escort and then they started dating and they lived happy ever after.

 

I knew a prostitute who married one of her clients. It was my understanding that she quit the biz and let the guy take care of her (some dependency issues if you ask me, poor girl had a fucked up past, but I do really believe she loved the guy). Like any other job... people connect with others at work.

Does she ever talk about her personal life with you, or does the conversation stay light? Do you know some deep things about her past? If so, then that could be a sign that she, at the very least, trusts you. If not, then it's more likely she's just good at what she does.

 

She has told me lots about her past not all. I know that there is more to tell. I think that she thinks it will scare me if she tells me to much.

 

Today I got an answer about her feelings for me and she said that she really liked me and cared about me but said that at he moment her head is not in the right space to be dating anyone at the moment. She also said that she hated at ask for money from me as she really liked to spend time with me and charges me a really cheap deal cos she likes me and that sometimes she turns down other people just to see me. So we are still friends but I am upset that thats all it is at the moment.

 

Chin up! Anything can happen. :2thumbsup: