I have sort of been seeing this girl since Christmas and in February I decided that I had feelings for her. She knows that I have feelings for her and we have sort of but not really talked about it. I just wonder as I am not very good at this. How can I ask her on a proper date with out ruining what we have? Where is a nice romantic place to take her for a first date? Also how do you win a girl over. As said We have a good thing going at the moment and I do not want to ruin what we have I just really have feeling for her and would really like to ask her out on a date.
Asking people on dates has always seemed too formal and unnatural for me, but I guess it depends on what she is like. My most successful technique is to NOT ask her out - just ask if she wants to catch up. She'll know what it means, even if she doesn't. You'll be drawn to each other and with luck, one thing will lead to another.
No this is some-one els. It alway seem that I have no one then all of a suden I have 2 or 3 to chose from. Last year I had no one then all of a suden I had 3 girls to chose from and I ended up dated one of the girls for 3 months and now I have been seeing someone for a few months sort of and have a small crush mthe girl in the corner shop. I am talking about the girl I have sort of been seeing for a few months.
if you're already seeing her, that generally means you are dating. if you're just hanging out with her as friends, and you have feelings for her, then you don't have a good thing to ruin in the first place. i sure wouldn't. i'd especially be confused if we'd already been seeing a lot of each other.