I still don't get it why after all these years do women (myself included) have an instincual need to be dominated int he bedroom. I so don't get it you I hate not understanding things about myself.
'I so don't get it you I hate not understanding things about myself'? Please, what the hell are you talking about? Although, I must say that I certainly understood the first sentence of your post. If I could understand human instincts, well, I'd be a wiser man than I am right now.
I like it ruff as well, but my boyfriend refuses to even try to be ruff with me. It drives me insane!
Rough sex doesn't really appeal to me. I am one of those boring romantic people. I like passionate sex, but that is different from someone choking me and hurting me. I don't really want to be dominated by someone.
Your boyfriend may say he doesnt like it because perhaps maybe he dosn't have any experience with it? Try to introduce it into your love makeing slowly. Pay attention to his reaction to your subtle agressive advances. If he seems to enjoy what your doing then consider that a green lite to take the next step. If he doesnt like it hten your going to have to try to knock some sence into him one way or the other. I personally love rough sex. Its a double edge sword though for me. I like it but I tend to climax too quickly when its rough. One thing for certain, there's nothing more exciting than a woman who knows what she wants and isnt afraid to act on it.