Boyfriend smokes weed all the time?

we have been dating a little over a month and i find that he'll smoke any chance he gets. im not against the fact that he smokes pot, i do it with him sometimes except i don't really care much for it whereas for him, it's like one of his top priorities. is it wrong that this bothers me, should i say something?

 

It's not wrong, I can see how it may get annoying - but that shit ain't gonna change if he's like any other pothead out there. Say something if you wish, but when he's not stoned... and don't get your hopes up.

 

Lol and the nagging begins after only a month!

That's who he is. If you don't like it, leave. I'm telling you right now, if you try to make him stop, he might, but he'll end up resenting you for it.

Dude smokes weed, big deal! Could be alot worse...

Also, asking this on a hippie forum might not really get that answers youre looking for.

 

so?


i agree with shiv. it shouldn't be a deal breaker, but if it's a big deal for you, better leave now.

 

I'm exactly like that.
Yea my ex would be like you like weed more than me
Yea i do bro!

 

Yeah man, love you girls but ganja doesn't nag and you don't have to pay attention to it's problems and shit.. Just lets ya chill.

It doesn't menstruate either

 

Your relationship with him as lasted a month...

Sounds like his affair with pot has been going on a bit longer.

Pot has first dibs.

 

Yeah, that shit would definitely get on my nerves. Being stoned all the time is just as boring as being sober all the time. Everything in moderation. Don't really know if he'll change though, but I think (contrary to what everyone else on here seems to think) you can bring it up without it constituting as "nagging." Having an opinion doesn't automatically make you a nag, sheesh.

 

Smoking is injurious to health and must be stopped immediately. You can help him to cope up with these problem.

 

Sex is awesome on pot. You make him stop his boners will shrink by about a 1/2 inch and he'll spooge in about 1/4 the time.

 

Mine did too. It was bad for his lungs and while pot isn't addictive he couldn't do anything without it. He couldn't even sleep over without going home and getting high first.

 

Its only been a month and you're already trying to change him?

I didn't even tell my girlfriend i smoked weed until 5 months or so into our relationship, i didn't think it was a big deal... man, was i ever wrong. When i first told her she flipped shit, but she got over it eventually.

She doesn't really mind that i smoke weed now though, she just minds that i smoke it everyday... When i first told her i smoked i had to lie and say it was just once every few weeks, then when she got used to the idea i started saying it was weekly, and now that it's been months i've told her i smoke it everyday, she dislikes that...

But i don't get why she cares, seeing as how she obviously hasn't even noticed me being high, right? So it shouldn't change anything, right? But i guess not...

I've promised her i'll smoke it less a few times, i haven't started that yet though... But i will soon.

She doesn't like the fact i smoke weed, but it also isn't a huge deal, we just don't ever talk about weed in general then there's no issue.

Anyways... i guess the point of my story is, he smokes weed... if you like him, then deal with it. Ask him to do it less, but don't tell him to stop... if he cares about you he will compromise, if not, then i guess you're out of luck.

But, that being said... you don't have to be out of luck... why does it even bother you in the first place that he smokes it? Maybe you're the one that has to change and not him...? Just my opinion...