Hi I'm a 19 year old bi-curious college guy. Lately I'v been a little confused about my sexuality. I'v always been very curious about bisexuality and have always been turned on my the thought of being with another man. I do pretty well for myself with girls but I still feel like there's something more that I'm missing, some sensation I can olnly experience by having sex with another man. I'v never done anything with another guy or even revealed these feelings to anyone, I'm extremly worried about anyone finding out about this so I'v been trying to be really discreet. I'd like to experiment for myself first hand but I'm really not sure how to go about doing it. Any advice would be appreciated and I would really like to talk to someone a little more experienced if your insterested.
i'm gay and i never went through the whole confusion thing some guys have. but even though i don't have the common experience on that one i can tell you that there really is nothing wrong for a guy to like other men. whether in the end you're gay, bi, or just a guy interested to know what it's like to be with another man, it's all natural to feel that way. the only thing that will make it a negative thing is yourself, if you beat yourself up about it. you sound like you really wanna know what it's like, and the only way to do it is to be with a guy. i can tell you that it's amazing, based on my own experience, being with a guy, to share your body with him and him sharing his with you in return --nothing else in the world really compares to that-- but my words won't count for much with that. you need your own first person experience. so, find a guy you would trust, who is interested and find it out. be discreet if you need to, but follow your own body and what you want to do. forget about what anybody else tells you, you know what you want the best.
