I have become a player.

How does one stay faithful to one person? Honestly I think that's one of the hardest things to do. I'm not sure if it's because i'm a really horny guy or if I get bored easily or porn has just ****ed my brain up but, it is very difficult for me to stay faithful to someone. Perhaps I haven't met the person whom I REALLY like? When I was younger I was able to stay faithful to that special someone but I think that's because my options back then were much more limited. Now I have more options and i'm easily tempted now. For example, recently i have been semi-dating this girl..but then I hung out with this other girl and stuff led to other stuff and on top of that there's this other girl too(though my relationship with her is completely mutually casual). Is cheating dependent upon the options one has or is it more of a question of one's own will power? I wouldn't want to hurt anyone that I like nor do I mean to...thats just mean! These are not my intentions, I'm a really nice guy..I guess I just have a penis.

 

idk i like relationships! they give me a fixed-option to boredom whereas random hookups are just luck for me most of the time(im barley average looking) or they're not as often as id like. and sometimes i really like someone but i dont want to hurt them lol

 

Your 19 you have plenty of time

 

respect

 

An open relationship is the idea here.

As for staying exclusive and not straying various factors come to play... Your own personality and how much you like the other person are two things.

It doesn't really sound like you "cheated" it just seems like you are indeed playing the field rather than committing to one person - nothing wrong with that. I did the same last summer and had sex with a few guys and fooled around, it was great.

The responsible thing to do in your situation is DON'T fully commit to someone if you're then just going to cheat, as that's real mean.

 

What kind of a question is that? Are you saying you don't KNOW??

Helluva playa, dude ...

 

Cheater and player are not the same thing I think.

 

x 2

 

lol, well finding a a open minded girl who is down with an open-relationship is easier said than done.

 

So stay single and just shag around... Its not that hard

Don't go around breaking girls hearts... That's not cool.

 

Well.. your young.. No need to try to settle early.. no need to rush things..
But i think keeping to one lady is all in the mind..

I have never had trouble keeping to one guy.. But theres things i love.. I like to cook, bake them good foods and watch them enjoy it.. It just makes me so happy.. see them everyday stuff like that.. I was in one relationship for almost five years and the other one for a year... and i'm only 20. soo good luck...

You can always try an open relationship... everything takes time.

or just yea, like he said stay single and have FWB.. stuff like that.. no need to try to settle when your not ready... it only makes things difficult

 

You're right. Thank you, i'll definately try to work on this

 

no problem dude....
I am glad i can be of some assistance...

you just gotta work through it..

 

definately, i just like the girl im dating. well not like super like but enough to date her and stuff you know? idk.. im weird haha