So, like most girls, I love getting oral, and I've never had a problem getting it since most guys seem to be pretty into it. I've never even had to suggest it, they usually just go for it on their own. So it's been kind of wierd to me that the guy I've been seeing for the last 6 months hasn't even tried. I've gone down on him and he's gotten as far as kissing my thighs, but then he always stops. I finally decided to ask him about it because it seems so curious to me and I prefaced it with not wanting him to feel like he has any sort of obligation to do it, I just wanted to know what his view on it was since he seems to have some kind of aversion to it. For a while I was just thinking he was shy, but i came to terms with the fact that i was lying to myself because he's by no means shy in any other aspect of things. What he told me was that he does think it's fun but he had a bad experience with it. He wouldn't tell me what that bad experience was, but said that someday he wanted to get over it. I really want to know what this bad experience was and I also really want him to be comfortable going down on me, because honestly, it's one of my favorite things and I haven't gotten it in over 7 months now, but I don't want to pry too much or put any pressure on him. But how could I help him get over it? Or should I just leave him to his own devices?
He may have gone down on someone with bad hygene or maybe started her period.....in his mouth. Not the best of senerios. Either way, just tell him that it's what you want and need. That would do it for me. Whatever you do, don't get in my shoes cuz my wife has completely stopped sucking dick even though I eat her ALL THE TIME. She Knows I'm addicted to it.
Those are the 2 things I thought it could be as well, but conversely, he has been incredibly open with me the entire time we've been together. He's never been embarrassed to share anything with me, especially if I ask. And he's also incredibly comfortable with himself and his desires. This is the only thing that he has hesitated on and I feel like if it was just a matter of bad hygiene or starting a period, he wouldn't have any sort of quarrels about telling me that because neither of those things are a big deal, they're just laughable, and he's told me a lot more personal things than that scenario before. I just don't know what else it could be...
hi i hope you will understand what i want to tell you sincerely. well.. if your hole and surroundings are neat, shaved, soft and nicely perfumed then there are no any arguments for him to lick out your hot hole eagerly.. other thing, suggest him you suck his cock while licks your clits (69 position)
Well, I like to keep a neat shop, as it were, so I dunno. Maybe it's not adequate? I shower more than he does and shave waay more than he does and I still give him oral. He tried to get me into 69 position once but without telling me what he was doing so there was a little confusion and when I asked him and he said essentially that, but that he was going to finger me. Needless to say I was a little thrown off by it. But I'm, honestly, not a big fan of 69 anyway. Dunno why, it just never suited me all that well.
mmm... then you both must spend a night to figure out what every partner wants the other to do for him and where are the sensitive areas that turn on both of you..
yea 69 is really overated. You are concentrating so much in pleasing your partner that you cant just lay back and enjoy. Have you tried a full-on frontal assault? Push him down on the bed....mount him, seduce him, get him fired up and sit on his face. Some of us guys reeeeealy like it when a girlgets aggressive in bed.
No, I haven't tried that. Like I said, I don't want to push him to do something he might not be ok with. I don't have a problem being aggressive, but I'm also very respectful, and knowing that he has hesitation about this, I wouldn't want to put him in a situation where he was forced to either do it or have things get awkward.
You know...even worse than the other two things I mentioned would be a girl saying he sucked at doing it. Theres nothing worse than trying to get a girl off and not getting her there. Sometimes it just doesn"t happen. No matter how hard you try. Maybe he got bombed for something(performance related) like that and that could be really bad. Whatever it is, sit him down and talk to him when you are not naked so you can come to terms on YOUR sexual needs. Is he at least getting you off? Maybe you should suggest that it's something that you need to orgasm or if you are to have better orgasms.
I've licked girls plenty of times when they were on their peroids-as long as they're wearing a tampon, who cares? Just lick that little love button. She'll love you for it. As for being addicted to licking pussy-we should start our own organization-I'm completely hooked. And I know how it feels to not get any reciprocation..... Anyway, real men eat pussy-without reservations or hesitation! That's my opinion....
Just ask him. I figure it has to do with either a really bad tasting girl, or contact with an unwanted bodily fluid, but only he knows; we can't be of any real help. This is just all pointless speculation. It sounds like you both have aversion to open communication! An aside: shaving makes you taste much stronger, as the hair soaks up some of your juices.
Maybe he discovered it was a dude... Chicks with dicks are everywhere. He went to go the growl, but a big veiny 10 incher was suddenly staring him in the face. Some dudes don't like that.
Or...maybe that's the problem. Maybe he was face raped by someone and it left a bad taste in his mouth. (pun intended).
