I met this guy at work a year or two ago and we hit it off. there was a bit of interest from both of us and general flirting but then he moved away. hes back now and is definitly staying. we get on really well and the flirting has started up again, but he has a girlfriend who he hasnt seen in months, and they werent together much longer before he moved. i really like him so should i try and tell him how i fell and see how it works out? or should i just leave it and hope for the best?
He "has" a gf that he has seen in "months"...fuck that keep flirtin mayb he'll get a clue btw if he hasnt asked u out could it b bcus his shy?? Just wondering...
Ok hun, well, if he flirting then he obviously interested in you. One option would be for you to lay your cards on table with him. How do you feel about that? Sometimes it seems the best way forward is open and honest communication? I really hope things work out for the best x
Flirting doesn't always indicate interest -- some people flirt for reasons other than to indicate desire, and when it does indicate desire it doesn't necessarily indicate desire for an ongoing relationship. I've always been one to be open about my interest in a woman if she seemed at all receptive, so of course that'd be my recommendation. If he's interested then you know and can go forward, if he's not then you know and can get off of that hook. I don't know of one person who's ever really been satisfied to be just friends with someone they longed for, or of anyone changing his or her feelings about someone who's been a friend for a long time. Sure, the relationship might become friends-with-benefits but if one's in love and the other's just in lust there's a big wreck coming.
