going back to old ways?

Getting out of a relationship a month ago. I'm thinking about having fun again. since im still not over my ex. I see this guy (ive seen him before) at the bar i regularly go to. visa versa with him.

He looks like my ex. to me he does, seems cool. about 2 weeks ago he started talking to me and hitting on me, rubbing my leg discreetly. Making the moves. i wasnt in the mood that night and he looks like my ex. thats just weird.

Over the next few days i caught myself thinking about him and getting turned on. I know I'll never like him cause of my ex. I was thinking... maybe a one night stand wouldnt be bad? I never done one so im ify about it. and hes a regular at the bar i go to. I never picked up a guy at a bar too but for some reason, I wanna go home with him.

Some things are pulling me back. if we do that. I dont want drama, i dont want rumors. I want my name out of his mouth. things like that.

The next night we see another and he said well im going home stace, ill see ya... and me horny I say well you want some company? and we joke and he tells me where he lives. Me, drinking a bit, forgets that I have my dads car. So I tell him next time. (i think its disrespectful to be driving my dads car to go fuck a guy)

Next night, we see each other again lol we talk a bit...then he walks out and ends up not coming back. So here i am all wild up and horny and he left.

So. here we are, playing games. Should I just stop worrying, lay out my rules and go have fun? or talk to him some more. we keep beating around the bush and not in a good way lol

 

I'm at the same stage in my life... Well, except I'm a guy and the sexes are reversed... You get the point.

Anyway, there's no harm in one night.. He'll be back... They always come back!

 

it's not disrespectful to be driving your dad's car after drinking?

games are the worst thing to happen to relationships, ever.

 

My dad knew i was going out.

yeah I agree, if he keeps playing games then ill lose interests quick.

Bole--- yeah most of them come back. One night stands to me are useless unless you seriously dont wanna see tthem ever again but its up in the air with us right now. but i have a feeling its going to lead to sex. just wanna stop these games

 

kinda yes. i dont think hes caused for murdering lol

yes--hes very attractive and nice

ill worry alittle but im a woman!

yes little drinking talk. but it helps take the pressure off lol

think i will. i was talking to him last night. seems cool

 

Perhaps from his perspective, you may have been teasing him (unless you explicitly said I got my dad's car. Not tonight), so perhaps that's why he was cold the 'next time' when it didn't happen.

Anywho, enjoy your future sex.

 

Set the ground rules and go for it. Good Luck Stacy!

 

well i would if he'd stop saying excuses lol oh well. on to the next

 

It's disrespectful to drive your dad's car somewhere to have sex with a guy, but not disrespectful to drive it when you're drinking? Sex won't kill you but drink driving might. You need to fix your priorities.

It's very strange to want to fuck someone you claim not to like. If you're both happy to use each other, then go right ahead. If you're not happy to be used for sex (or if he isn't), then don't do it.

 

so many days , so much talking . damn are you two trying to solve the world poverty problems . so much talking today . the old days was less talking more acting .

 

sex could also kill her if she ends up with certain STDs, or death during childbirth, or a crazy person who kills his sexual partners.

on the other hand, sex is very unlikely to total his car.

 

Picture A Car Parked In A Clifftop Picnic Area, Seats Are Reclined, And The

Two Lovers Are Making A Pair Of Rabbits Look Tame By Comparasion, Then

One Of Them Bumps The Shifter Out Of Park....

Hope He Had His Insurance Company On Speed Dial....



Cheers Glen.

 

Sounds like a great end to an otherwise predictable movie,,lol.

 

yeah, that sounds like yet another way sex can kill you.

 

always gotta be an asshole in a thread lol

my last attempt to ask him straight foward "you wanna get out of here and have sex?"
"ill think about it"

>_> i just laughed then. very hard


andrew.... most guys are just pussies nowadays. always playing games and leading women on now. even with sex. its fine, theres other guys

 

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Fuck him for world peace!

 

Can u elaborate on sum experiances which has lead u to believe this?

 

of course men play games. it's the only thing women respond to.

plenty of guys don't play games, but women don't even consider them as potential partners, so they don't get counted when "most guys" are being discussed.

 

Although this isn't always true, I'minmyunderwear has a point. Except when the men who play games well are with girls, the girls don't always see it as a game, they think it's flirting, so they're ok with it all until they get burned, and then they feel mislead and hurt.

(i'm personally against games, but i understand there dynamic)

 

The bar is not a good place to meet people to hook up with, learned that from family members who got fucked over by drunks time after time.