Men: Describe the woman personality you like least

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by r0llinstoned, Apr 19, 2012.

  1. Walter.C.Numb

    Walter.C.Numb Member

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    All women are evil and they should be stopped!

    Just kidding, girls, don't be a drama queen now. Drama queens are annoying.

    Relax. [​IMG]
     
  2. lode

    lode Banned

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    Well, a personality trait can't stand is when a girl holds her tongue and expects me to telepathically understand her needs, and get's mad when I don't. Then brings it up days later. I need a strong girl or else I will unintentionally roll all over her.
     
  3. Indn_hippie

    Indn_hippie Member

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    I would have to say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but to answer the question, I really dislike stuck up women. You know, the type that roll in classy circles, follow the norm, watch garbage reality shows and think homeless people and hippies are weird because they can't understand any other lifestyle besides a princess life. Love open minded and simple drama free women.
     
  4. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    the ones that insist they won't let me hit
     
  5. andrew45

    andrew45 Member

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    this is a good story for history . In ancient time of history Socrates asked his student just like you are to make a list of ''what kind of woman is the best and the worst ''.
    Always the history ends with the bad character being the more than the good .
     
  6. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

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    Beauty is also in the eye of the beer holder

    I don't think anyone mentioned clingy yet. The ones who have to be with you at all times, and get paranoid when I wanna go somewhere without her. Or freak out if I don't answer the phone or return a text within 5 seconds. I like independence.
     
  7. walsh

    walsh Senior Member

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    The worst one for me is a girl who can't sit quietly without talking or being talked to. Why do you have to talk all the time? Silence is good too, if you've ever tried it.

    I also don't really like highly judgemental or dismissive girls, who appear to think they know you after ten seconds of talking to them. I'd say 98% of women in the world do this.

    This applies for anyone not just girls, but anyone who defines themselves by going as far as possible in one direction. So I don't like really sporty types (but being into sports is cool), or really brainy types who don't allow time for anything else. But as long as you have other interests you're fine.

    Nagging is another one
     
  8. Tyrsonswood

    Tyrsonswood Senior Moment Lifetime Supporter

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    The "Princess Complex"...
     
  9. IndigoDreamer

    IndigoDreamer Member

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    Hahahah, there are actually bitches like that?
     
  10. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    Yes, there are actually bitches like that.
     
  11. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

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    I've never heard of this Tumbler you speak of.
     
  12. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    I think that is probably closer to the mark... lol Whilst "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is true to an extent, it's something usually only said to outwordly "ugly" people to try and make them think that things aren't so bad. Again, that is a line I've had said to me a few times by people. It's something that's never really said to convetionally attractive or even normal looking people. In a way, when people say stuff like that to you, they are unknowingly contradicting themselves when they say things like "you look fine/don't look that bad". Because as I said, people with average or above looks never have that line said to them.
     
  13. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    crazy..i dont like the crazy ones

    unless its a quiet humble type of crazy
     
  14. aesthetic

    aesthetic Z

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    I hate the ones that get mad when you hit them.
     
  15. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    What is this nagging thing...explain it to me?

    Also, about the looks...I think that anytime you comment on your looks people are going to be uncomfortable with that... beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, but if you tell someone you think you're unnattractive they're probably not going to say..."you're the most gorgeous person I've ever seen", because you've set the tone that you already feel you are not... if you say "I'm so beautiful" at the worst you're probably going to get "you're alright", no one will say "let's face it, you're butt ugly"...

    What I've noticed as an expert people watcher is that people don't really judge looks by looks alone, attitude, confidence, personality, experience, communication, environment, all those things go into the way a person sees your appearance. When they first meet you, they see parts of you that imprint themselves in their minds about your "look"...the next time they see you they see more things...so sometimes I see someone and I think they look very attractive, depending on how I like their personality, by further looking at them they don't look as attractive or they look more attractive based on how I feel about them.

    I noticed this even as a child, that people base their aesthetic preferences on these internal factors moreso than external, and the energy you project and the way you hold yourself has a lot to do with how people see you and how you see yourself. Smiling and not being stressed out can really make a person look more attractive, as well.
     
  16. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    Generally speaking, I don't think that is true. I have seen a number of females online who claim to be "ugly" or at least, unattractive, when it's clear that they are anything but that. And more often than not, the responses are along the lines of "no way, you're gorgeous"/"You're beautiful" etc... So no, if a woman is outwordly attractive to most people, no matter what negative things she says about her looks, most people will tell them the truth about how they look. People tend to be much more comfortable with normal looking/attractive women putting down their looks, because in that situation, they are much more likely to be honest about it. If you really are what most would deem to be physically unattractive though, it instills much more discomfort in people, as they feel they have to lie to you about that.

    If you are what most would deem "ugly", and you say "I'm beautiful", you are probably more likely to get an honest reaction from people, than if you yourself are being honest about it.

    Again, from my own observations, I don't really tend to believe that. Of course, normal looking/outwordly attractive people can be ugly on the inside, and many are, although this only tends to reveal itself once you get to know the person better. But the initial attraction is formed mainly on the physical appearance. Which is where you're at a great disadvantage if you have an unsavoury appearance. People, especially of the opposite sex, are far less likely to want to get to know you in the first place if you're not very appealing visually.

    Certainly from what I've observed throughout my life, at least in regards to men, aesthetic preferences take at least equal precedence with internal preferences. Like I said, if you are outwordly unattractive, but you give off vibes that you do not view yourself in that way, people will more likely laugh at you, and think you're deluding yourself. So again, you're damned if you do, and damned if you don't. I guess in friendship terms, aesthetic appearance may not matter that much, although even in that respect, it sometimes can play a part in the way people treat you. But when it comes to romantic and relatonship issues, aesthetic appearance usually does have at least a part to play in that. Even if that's only what triggers off the initial attraction.
     
  17. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    Lets keep on track here guys.

    I hate when they do sad little puppy dog faces to try and get there way because they cant be wrong about anything and always have to have what they want.
     
  18. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    I fully agree with this, exactly my experience :)
     
  19. Wow! You motherfuckers are something else!
     
  20. Lodog

    Lodog Senior Member

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    Here's something kind of subtle that annoys me.

    There's a scene in the movie Juno where the family that's going to adopt are painting the room for the baby and the woman's wearing a vintage Alice n Chains T-shirt and the guys seems a little annoyed by this. I'm kinda that guy.

    Things that I value she sees as something not valuable.
     

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