my girlfriends mind wanders and she loses intrest?

ok so i was speaking to my girlfriend because im trying my hardest to get her to cum and i still cant seem to get her to cum and she mentioned to me today that when we are doing anything sexual that she starts her mind wandering and she will think stuff like what she will watch on TV later that night, what she will be doing tomorrow and what outfit she wants to wear and as well as hurting my feelings i think it is effecting our sexual relationship and i want to get her in the mood and get her sex drive back up by getting her into sex and also getting her to cum and i could really use some help because its straining our relationship quite a bit and i don't want to lose her over something like this

 

ritalin.

 

maybe.

she is scattered brained.
the only thing i can advise for you two is, that you all seek out the help of a psychologist, who has training in sex therapy.

good luck to you two.

 

Well how are you going about setting the mood now? Are you treating the sex too much like a business arrangement, as if it's almost expected to the terms of what defines a relationship?

Take her out on the town, give her a massage, look into her eyes, do something that isn't the normal standard that she's come to expect from your usual lovemaking routine.

 

Take two of these, or maybe just one.



Then drink some of this.



Come back in two weeks.

 

Hello,

Before anything else, I would advise you to communicate with each other. Why does she do that? Is there somthing wrong with you? or anything that can explain why she keeps on thinking something else. Or you could just try asking her to think whatever she can for a few minutes so you can have her all by yourself afterwards, body and mind. hehe. Or maybe try to ask her if she is having fun with what you both are doing. If not, then time to ask why. Maybe she needs more stimulation. Or maybe she has a nerve problem down there. Or maybe she has hormonal imbalance. In order for you to know if she has those, go to a doctor, have herself checked. And maybe you should try to ask her to focus her mind on what you are doing. And you should also check out what's in the market today. I have seen these pills and gels to amp up her sexual craving and feelings to have the ultimate pleasure while having sex. Gotta check that out. I hope this helps and good luck!!!

 

I second this.

 

Without fail.



I'll third the Doobies. Pot is insta-horny, if that doesnt work trade her in for one with a pulse

 

Sounds like maybe shes just lost interest.....

 

DOOBIES YOU SAY....??

And Here Was Me Thinking It Was A Bag Of Tampons....

Ever Since I Read That Post, I Thought, No Wonder The Poor Girls Mind Is

Wandering, If She's All "Plugged Up" And Trying To Have Sex....



Cheers Glen.

 

Because all tattooed guys carry around sandwhich bags full of roll your own tampons?

 

I have inattentive type ADD, and my mind wonders too. i have explained this to my current bf, so he doesn't get upset if it seems like my mind is wondering. It is really hard for me to orgasm sometimes, but I can't help that. On the plus side though,I will also tend to hyper focus on having sex, and sex play. Then it is all I can think about, and I hope that he is sufficiently hydrated, because I mean to alleviate him off all of his man goo ;p

 

Looks like she has a problem on this basically its the women who try to give their best during sex and if she is not interested then she cant complain about anything. Dont worry as long as you are doing a great job.