Dark but important discussion

Yeah, but think about it though. That from your perspective it seemed one way. From her mothers perspective hanging around the other mums and their daughters watching her interact, would have looked like she was way ahead all other girls her age. Not just her mum, but all the other mums would have known. You'll click eventually, they all know

 

I was puking drunk once and sleeping on my friends couch. I semi woke up to him on top of me just givin er. then passed out again after i threw up on myself and him. Woke up with no pants in the morning, covered in puke and got the fuck out of there. never told anyone, not even my friend.

 

Bumping because this topic has surfaced again recently and this seems to be a more helpful and less insulting thread than one that appeared recently.

 

Yes. I was raped at 14. I tend to just class it as sexual abuse as I could have done more to stop it. I dont want to go into detail about it

I never reported it. infact up until recently i didn't tell a single person. I was too ashamed, scared that they wouldn't believe me. He denied it to my face, straight afterwards, tried to manipulate me into thinking what happened was normal and acceptable. I was scared of my parents finding out. He took my virginity and I didn't want anyone to know.

I didn't tell my ex partner, I was with him almost 4 years and we have a child yet I still couldn't build up the courage to tell him.

Now that I've opened up about it to someone (my current partner), i feel so relieved, it was a massive weight of my shoulders and enabled me to clear my mind. Hes given me a lot of support too... He kind of guessed that something had happened to me because during sex once it all came back to me and I panicked, he said the fear in my eyes was soul breaking! so I told him and im so glad I did!