question for the guys

If you went out with someone, and it seems like you guys really hit it off, and had a good time.

what are the reasons you wouldn't call her back?

 

Busy with prior engagements. Cell phone broke. Distracted... Don't want to call as its too soon... Don't want to call as something seemed off when reflecting upon the date... Take your pick.

-Seriously though, be patient.

 

i,m not picky i,ll be calling back. unless smoething really fucked up happend?

 

Lost your number, lost my phone, dead cell, could be I think you didn't like me or I'm embaressed about something. Give him a call hun, don't be a female chavinist! lol Good luck.

 

maybe she smelled like old cheese covered in cat urine.

 

Wife might have found the number.

 

Call him and ask. It's not out of line. In fact, I think I'd be pretty damned impressed - but then again, I'm a weirdo.

 

there are a million reasons why this could happen, however, i do not care to share one simply because 'he' may have a million reasons of his own. if it's meant to be, it will be my friend.

much love, TP

 

Number one reason would be because I get the feeling the girl is passively waiting for me to call if for no other reason than she`s got a hole between her legs. Women who won`t take initiative = huge turn off.

Number two reason because I get the feeling it`s going to be high-maintenance or long, drawn out dating.

Number three, she seems clingy. But, to be quite honest, I give chicks more the benefit of the doubt on this one, as well I shouldn`t.

Finally, it goes without saying, I`m not really attracted to her. It was nice, but meh. You may think you really hit it off because you like him. But, it may not be fully reciprocated.

 

Ooo, ouch nd that might be the cold truth... I don't know what it is.. But im just thinking..
Y should I be the one to call first..
If he doesn't call.. Then I'm not going to either.

 

And I'm thinking . . . Y should he be the one to call first? It's 2012.

 

Doesn't the OP already have a relationship with someone?

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=449385

In either case- the whole "I'm not going to call if he won't" is just plain retarded. Grow up and if you are interested- pick up the phone and call.

 

^^ i agree. if you really like the person, call them. you have nothing to lose and possibly much to gain. plus, life is too short to fret about reasons why he didn't call. just do it, or don't, but then stop thinking about it.

 

Obviously, he`s out of her league.

 

Call or don't call, up to you but if you like him call. Or move on and find someone else

 

shes butt ugly but her online pic she looked alright.

her teeth are yellow and big or missing.

her breath is so hot, she could melt a glacier

her breath is the cause of global warming.


Seriously, she would have to have a flaw that is undeniably irritating. I have a high tolerance.

 

because in my eyes

we clearly didn't hit it off.

 

Me personally I'd call back but i guess others would just be ignorant and rude.
Even if I didn't fancy her if we got on well then what's wrong with having another friend? Then again it could be a genuine reason like he may have lost his phone or something serious could of come up. Hope u aint being messed about! But if he was into you, he would of called, trust me!

 

it's different many guys have many different reasons not to. I never called a girl back.. quickly, it would only be when I am single, or if taken in a polygamous relation, swing relation or other etc etc, anyways I'd not call her back if I really like her, if she calls me, 3-5 days later I'm extremely happy. But if you don't call there is a chance I'll call 5 weeks later to say "hey remember that time we had, was fun maybe we'd do it againn sometime soon, what do you think?" ----- "yeah? alright it's a date then!" where you think it's a date without it being officially a date to sneak it in there to make the night more open to possibilities

 

Their is no point in speculating on why someone doesn't call you back, if it bothers you that much then go ahead and ask. It could be so many reasons for him not to call you. Maybe he has a gf he is rocky with? Maybe he found another girl? Prior engagment? Lost interest afterwards? Is shy? Who's really to say?