It’s been almost 1.5 years since it happened but I still can’t figure out what was it? And how it could have happened? (sorry for long post) I met this girl and gradually we hit along extremely nicely; we shared same interests and helped each other on various occasions in professional capacity. She had a boyfriend and I also met him in some occasions; we were just very good friends. Although I did find her very hot and attractive but I never revealed it to her or gave any such signals; I was just very happy to have found a very good friend. Long story short, she had relationship issues with her boyfriend and over the time we ended up having sex after a wild party night when her boyfriend was away. Needless to say it was awesome sex; we had oral sex, 69 and later I had her with condom, 10 minutes into it but I was not getting closer to cum while she was going wild with pleasure; I took the condom off and finally I came on her belly and boobs. I knew her quite well and it gave me the confidence to do oral and sex without condom. Over next week or so, we did it again, oral and then sex with condom etc. Next morning I had bit of blood in my penis after urine but it was fine after that, no more blood all day or so, but I could see some small fluid on my penis opening and I could feel bit of itching inside penis top. I went to the doctor, did all STD tests and all was ok; except he said I had some sort of ‘Strept Pneumonia’ … I was prescribed with some antibiotics for 5 days. I told her about it and convinced her to get tested too; she told me her boyfriend had no such issues but she did the tests and everything was fine for her too. After couple of weeks or more we had sex again, this time no oral and just sex with condom. Next day or so I again felt the same itching and bit of fluid on the penis end. It wasn’t making sense to me as I used condom and no sexual contact without condom, just mouth to mouth kissing, which anyway we had been doing during last couple of weeks; anyway I took the medicine again and it was fine later. I thought I was probably not fully recovered or bacteria was still there so it came back. She moved out of city and we met about 6 months later, we had hots for each other and ended up in bed again. No oral, and sexual contact with condom only … in next day or so I had the itching and fluid story back on my face ! Did all the STD tests again, came all ok … same medicine and week later I was fine. She has moved to another country long time ago, to date I can’t figure out what was the reason? What was this bacteria? … of course condoms are not 100% safe, but not that bad? … I had sex with condoms all the time never had any issue before Can someone please help to understand?
Well it sounds like there obviously was some kind of infection. One thing about STD/STI tests you have to understand is, if you take the test too soon after having sex and then suspecting you have something, the results might be a false negative. It also sounds like you did have some bareback sex with this girl, and it's possible that she had something before she gave it to you during the encounters you had together. This is why people should get tested BEFORE the hot and heavy stuff happens. Also some STD's can spread through unprotected oral contact or fingering as well. (like if you touched her privates or fluids, and then you touched your privates). Might I ask what the sore area of the penis looked like? It hasn't flared up again since has it?
I agree with you and timing to do tests is clear to me … but what I don’t get is that probably during initial encounters I might have caught the stuff via oral and fingering etc. but I made sure during last encounter (which was about 6 months later) that only contact was via condom, no fingering, no oral etc. then how come I had the exact same symptoms of infection? From outside the penis looked absolutely normal; it was just the slight itching part inside the head area + fluid staying on the opening. I am fine since last encounter which was about 1.5 year ago now, but I am still not able to forget it, and more importantly I just want to know what exactly was it that even via condom I got infected? I just want to be safe for future …
You Say You Have Had Sex With Condoms Many Times Without A Problem. Did You Buy A Different Brand Of Condom, Because I'm Starting To Think That Maybe You Are Alergic To A Certain Type Of Latex.... Cheers Glen.
Nops, I used the exact same brand as used before, so couldn't be the issue. I don't have any alergy to any type of latex too. It didn't and still doesn't make sense to me
