Finger and cock

This is for girls and women - what do you feel the difference when get fingered or cocked in? the fingering action makes you more horny in mind or it really works? In general, women like fingering or not?

 

I hate getting fingered. It feels rough and bumpy. Not at all smooth like a cockhead. Any time I've ever been fingered I'm just going "What the fuck are you doing down there? Just fuck me."

 

I have found if fingering a girl I never really stick it right in anymore, I wkways get a much better response just rubbing the clit and running my fingers up and down the lips

 

I've found a mix of the two gets good results, at least its what im told. Start working my way down slowly, tease around the inner thighs, work the clit, slowly work down and begin to go in, and back to clit, go in a bit further and back to clit, until im in rubbing her G spot, then a mix of the two depending on her reaction.

But then again its all down to personal preference. My girl cant stand the idea of oral and wont let me try it on her (yet...). it just freaks her out apparently.

 

while i love getting my pussy pounded, a good fingering can be incredibly hot. when i feel fingers tickling the interior of my vag, my g spot ... i have been known to cum and gush intensely. orgasm from a good finger fuck can be rather amazing.

 

Thanks for sharing. Jenniferjuniper, a finger upward is more sensual than downward? or how? i mean which one make you feel better?

 

Who ever you are gushing on is a very lucky guy.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

@ funforreal - fingers upward/toward the clit side of the vag is definitely more sensual than the other direction. a little tickling and pressure in that area is divine. plus, once a couple fingers are inside me and i get pretty wet, i tend to want more. fingers, that is. it's a great sensual experience and is on par with orgasms from intercourse in my book.

@ rev - well, yeah, he's lucky but i gotta say that it's a pretty sweet thing to have a guy who knows how to give a good finger fuck. plus, the gushing factor makes it possible for the fisting fantasy to actually happen following said good finger fuck, as i've recently discovered.

 

I've been told my technique is pretty good. I've only been with 2 gushers in my life but it is pretty cool. I'm a beginner with the fisting thing but I think I could master it.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

well rev, you are lucky if you have a good fingering technique down. so are the ladies lucky enough to enjoy that technique. i'm new to the fisting thing too - i've always wanted to try it but until recently, guys i've been with have only used four fingers, not the whole hand. the other day, i was being fingered by my current lover and he just curled his thumb under and in went his whole hand. it was incredibly hot, both mentally and physically. godspeed on mastering a fisting technique

 

I wonder how many inches long your fingers have to be to get to the spot or general area jenniferjuniper is talking about.

Would you mind measuring the length of those fingers on your bf and report back jen?

I'm hoping my hand qualifies as being able to do the task your bf can with girls I fancy.

 

You don't need long fingers. There is a thread about it somewhere, just need the right technique, the G-Spot that is

 

monkjr, i'll measure the fingers, but i agree with psychonaut - it's not the length per se, but how they are used.

 

All I've heard about the technique is that the right amount of pressure and friction need to be applied at the proper moments (which varies from girl to girl).

And the proper moments are generated by the mental-foreplay, so the physical foreplay gets to where it needs to go.

 

Speaking for myself if you look at the bass i my sig pic I can reach the lowest string with my middle finger at the widest part of the neck. Granted that is equal parts technique, finger length, and hand size. I think that it does help that I am a bass player in the fact that I play fingerstyle and have more strengh, dexterity, and stamina in my dominant hand.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

yeah. from the girl's perspective, while some finger thrusting is good, a good fingering technique needs less thrusting and more of an artful combination of a come-hither tickle and some upward pressure on the gspot sponge. probably not unlike playing an instrument. the lover's i've had who fingered me best were all musicians. just sayin'. equal parts hand/finger size, technique, and hand strength doesn't just work for playing a stringed instrument but is also good for making a girl cum via a good finger fuck.

 

Guess I need to pick up a guitar for some finger exercises then.

 

The most intense orgasm I've ever experienced was while I was being fingered. With his middle and index fingers he put pressure on the roof (?) of my vagina, curving his fingertips upward for more friction. Once I became more turned on, he took his middle finger, and he was just sort of tapping my g-spot rythmically. My boyfriend works on cars, is a baker at a small company, and he plays guitar, so he works with his hands a lot. I'm sure it doesn't hurt.

So I'd say that fingering can be equally as pleasurable as regular intercourse, especially if the clit and lips are massaged as well.

 

I'd guess about 2.5 to 3 inches back on the topside of the vaginal cannal. Lol. It feels fleshier than the ridges of the vagina if you feel with your fingertips.

 

Jeniferjuniper, some girls tend to enjoy but some seem not to enjoy finger enter their vag. As girl's perspective, more enjoy or more not to enjoy fingering?

Watching some porn in which the guy fingering the girl like hell and the girl spraying liek tsunami...it's not true, right?