3 dates and we haven't kissed yet. I don't wanna fall in the friend zone!

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  1. 6-eyed shaman

    6-eyed shaman Sock-eye salmon

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    Because once you fall into the friend zone, their is no way out. I need some help!

    We've had dinner and coffee shop dates, this next one is going to be a study date out in sunny weather tomorrow afternoon. I wanna make something happen, but I'm afraid I may have not acted fast enough.

    I think part of my problem is that I'm not flirty enough and I'm a bit too cautious when it comes to sexual jokes around girls I wanna impress. I find that when I really like a girl, I get too cautious and become boring.

    What do you suggest I do?
     
  2. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Steer Away From The Sexual Jokes......That's The Cheap

    Approach......Just Be Your Yourself......And When

    The Time Is Right......Look Her In The Eyes...... And Tell Her You Have

    Feelings For Her......:love:

    I Wish You Well...:).



    Cheers Glen.
     
  3. arthur itis

    arthur itis Senior Member

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    Do what women do to send "want signals". Touch her, gently, at first, and then, later, when the time is right,,jus' skeweeeez them boobeeeeezzzzzzz like-a-they's-no-tumarah,,,,,,,,,


    no,,just kidding. In an ideal world. ^

    But the ticket is, the "ideal" world is what you make it, so forget about waiting,,just begin subtly, like moving a bit closer than you were, making contact, learning how to verbalize appreciation, about things like her hair, her eyes, her lips, her front teeth and molars, notice if she whinnies,,,

    Oh, wait,,

    But yeah, it's got to be gradual, but make progress, man, make progress,,stay on track.
     
  4. I agree! Be yourself and tell her how you feel and be honest. Kiss her when the time is right for the two of you! Good luck! :)
     
  5. DMFP

    DMFP Member

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    I agree with Glen.

    One thing I would add is... when you think the 'time is right', just gently take her hand. This will ensure she looks at you and that there is a small physical connection between the two of you which, in my opinion, is quite important.

    Good luck, hope it goes well and please give us an update:)
     
  6. arthur itis

    arthur itis Senior Member

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    But you've got to think digitally,,like how far is 1/2 the distance between myself and herself?? Move at least that much closer as soon as you can, and have a reason, like you want to focus a bit more attention on her, her eyes, etc..

    Than again, most women dislike scrutiny, so just get closer if only you've supported that idea by saying nice things about her face...

    (Like,,"Hey, whats that, dish detergent dripping down your face?",,,lol)
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  7. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    +..I Like This Post...:).



    Cheers Glen.
     
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