Not sure if this is the right subforum, I hope so. Me and the gf have a sexual bucket list (small for now but we're working up to some stuff) and one we tried this weekend was shower sex. Ran into some issues, but first ill go over the good. This has been one of my fantasies for ages. Lights off, some candles in the bathroom, its a pretty roomy shower so its not cramped but we're real close, its steamy, washing each other, its really hot. Me fingering her til she comes and her either giving me head or a handjob is great, no complaints, but it would be nice to be able to go the full way. We tried, and I figured it would be quite easy cus shes pretty tall, about 5'10 and im 6'1. But we could really get it right. She's in one corner, leg up against the wall without too much effort to hold it there so shes comfortable. I enter her, but I have to crouch and cant really get a good angle where I get all the way in. And then im trying to thrust while maintaining thir bent knees half crouch which is killer to hold myself up and concentrate on thrusting and pleasure. I know we might be able to circumvent this by doing it from behind, but I dont know if either of us likes the idea of that. Alot of my pleasure from sex comes from the closeness, and being face to face is a big part of that for me i think. Alternatively might try from behind but her sort of standing, my arms around her holding her up against my body. What do you guys/gals think, any success stories/positions? If you have them, say yours and your partners heights just so i can get some reference peace xx
Lay on the shower floor. Doggy style is really gunna be your best bet though. You could always pick her up and fuck her standing up, this coming from experience. My girlfriend is only about 5' 6"- 5' 7" though.
Hmmmm, what about putting a plastic chair in the shower and you sit on it and she sits on your cock facing you?
The difference in height is a challenge. I am over a foot taller than my fiance and I have to always bend my knees. Kneeling on the floor will kill your knees unless you have some sort of cushion. It would be a good form of exercise if you keep practicing! It is easier to be in a standing doggy style position though. Best of luck!
yes that works, also lay her back flat against the wall, shower running and slide it in, she holds onto your shoulders/head and her legs ride your thighs like a horse, to get a nice feeling, from then you just adjust your feet and angle your knees to support her, as you hold her legs comfortably and get in the zone. Also try her on top you can keep close and maybe she can get the position better, or if you can work out a face to face doggyish styled position in the tub. could work. Just make it a fun experience and it'll be worthwhile, if you don't then it'll be serious and awkward. anyways if anyone has any good suggestions I"ll try it with my lady and if she doesn't want to then, I'll find one of my side gfs to do it with me. So I'll have some more in-depth advice.
I'm 6'8 and she's 5'1 and what we do is, she stands on the side of the tub, I put it in while she lays back a bit and she holds on the the shower curtain rod.
My shower curtain would come right down. From behind is usually best, if height is different by if five or more inches. Make sure, really sure, your hot water will hold out.
Practice on dry land would help. (The skills learned will help when you get to the "elevator" section of your bucket list.)
Have her lean against the wall of the shower with her hands, then you enter her from behind and fondle her breasts or finger her clit. Are you experienced with different sexual positions? If you are, why wouldn't you be comfortable with doing it from behind?
water's a crappy lubricant for one, i wouldn't reccomend it at all myself, most home showers barely even fit me alone (i'm 6'4") so short of remodeling, i have 2 suggestions... 1) you can buy accessories (straps, handles) to make it easier/more comfortable, be sure you have a non-slip mat. 2) cheeper solution, cowgirl position. (you on your back, GF rides you) anything horizontal and you can get poked by knobs and nozzles, never fun... vertical you CAN hit the showehead, but it's really unlikely.
this would seem the most obvious way of going about it - what I like best about this one is to see the water splash up from her behind every time I thrust. Saying it doesn't quite do it justice, but there's a visual turnon to fucking under streaming water that's real nice
been there done that, its a no brainer m8, just stick to sex in any other place except the bath and shower 2 of the worst places to have sex, a total disaster