I hate it! But I can't stop it. I have no friends 'caz that shi.t is in my head. No friends - no faith in own self, no faith equals no girls, no money, no job, NO to all the WORLD, how to stop that? I lost control on my own life. I dont wanna live anymore without friends and girls, I cant live alone.
Stop fucking touching you're wanker then brother.. Honestly, open yourself up to new perceptions. Meditate, learn self control. Only you have power over yourself.
Hmmmm... stopping it is a choice, just like doing it is also a choice. maybe just work on disciplining yourself about that. i've been pretty depressed the past while, i was really afraid of not finding girls for sex or just to love. but i'm becoming happy with myself now, we shouldn't have to rely on girls for happiness. now i'm not worried about finding sex because if it was time for me to have a girl in my life... then i'd have a girl in my life. and if you wanna find a friend, you first gotta look at yourself. you're you're best friend, you're the one you gotta live with and die with. alone or with others. most likely you're not gonna be completely alone, and i'm tellin you now. you don't have to end up completely alone. i don't nkow if it works for you but for me when i feel a lack in faith, i just speak the words in my mind, "you can do this, this is your life, believe in yourself, you can become who you want to be." sometimes it feels like you're lying to yourself, but the voice inside that feels like you're lying, is the one who's lying.
idk, I always thought jacking off was like making a wish. the more you jackoff the more your dreams CUM true.. you just have to focus that energy and stop jerking off for the sake of jerking off. you can channel this energy and do anything that comes to mind..
OMG! How many times a day are you doing .... "IT?" You are in the midst of depression; there is a way out. I have been there and the way out is to understand the world has changed a lot in a very short time. You need to adjust. You have to let go of old dreams and expectations. Friends are usually cheap, and the best of friends are the cheapest because you put faith in them. Friends always let you down when needed, except in the movies. God will let you down also because God will not save you, will not save anyone. God keeps you alive long enough for you to find a way to save yourself. Save yourself by helping others. Girls follow money.........it is simple economics of supply and demand. Forget about women unless you happen across one that finds you, wants you and is willing to spend her own money on a date. Forget about the world too; shit happens and there is nothing you can do about it ... not even if you are President of the U.S. Tell yourself each morning as you wake up, "Today I will be HAPPY!" Say it out loud!!! Then get up and be happy. Your body follows what your mind says, ALWAYS! Study quantum physics and you will find that the universe provides to everyone exactly what they ask for .... both good and bad stuff. Ask for good stuff and STOP COMPLAINING! Each time you complain makes your life that much more what you are complaining about. Find people who are doing things and be around them. Find rich people to be around if you can because rich people do exciting things. Be helpful to others and others will lead the way without even knowing it. Fight being depressed and the other stuff will fall into place.
It's almost a year for this topic. Do you want to know what have been changed in my life? - Nothing! Hell. I can't find a job, still no friends and I am antisocial (I don't wanna be this kind tho). I can't up myself and no one can. The poeple surrounding me can't help also, they all thinking that I am sick and it's nothing to do with it. I don't wanna die or making stupid things, just wanna know how to exit from this depression which is formed by a years.
Seeing as you only joined in May this year its not almost a year, its mor elike 4 months. Do you really blame masturbation for all of your problems?
i dont know what to say. i started masturbating young. and prolly jerk off like 5-8 times a day, everyday, with the rare breaks now and then. i can control every other aspect of my life other than this. i wanted a good job, i got it i wanted to become vegan, i did i wanted to quit smoking , i did i wanted to learn another language, i did i wanted to stop smoking weed and doing other drugs ( for work ), i did i wanted to do this that and the other thing, and i accomplish what i set out to do. but when it comes to masturbation, i seem to always get caught with my pants down. wish i could help you, wish i could get help. wish this was easy to control as other things in my life.
Hmm... Now I think that the internet is reason. And yes, I'm sitting in the internet (seems) whole my life. So!? How to get rid of the internet? I can't break my pc 'caz sometimes I am working there. I even doesn't know how much long I must avoid internet (pc). So it's a dependency.
Quite simply, most of the examples you cite are activities that are detrimental to your health & are not natural. The others are acceptable social skills / targets. Masturbation, on the other hand is perfectly natural, and far from being detrimental has been medically proven to have benefits both physically & mentally. Therefore, far from working on ways to give it up, you should focus on a way to incorporate it into your life.
Beating your meat is a Normal, Healthy thing to do. Somewhere along your life, someone told you that it was a "bad thing." They lied to you, based on incorrect information they had learned. Your body and especially your prick are gifts from the gods. Get rid of the guilt and your life will change. As for all the other aspects of your life, I believe "We are as happy as we allow ourselves to be." This is an old post, I hope things have changed for you.
