How do you deal with....

Over-protective controlling parents who refer to your chores as your "job"?
I have a certain time I need to be in my bed at, and a certain time I need to be up and doing my designated chores. I wake up to at least 3 lists of chores (all saying the sane exact things). I get talked to like I'm an incompetent child, who is a spoiled brat and demands material things.
I'm 23 and fucking sick of this. It doesn't matter whether I do the chores on time, follow rules, don't talk back, & cook dinner 3 times a week, I get yelled at either way.
I follow the rules, I get in trouble. I break the rules, I get in trouble.
Not to mention the double standards in this house. It's the "house rule" that computers aren't allowed in bedrooms. Yet, everyone has their laptop in their room. The only one who's not allowed to? Me.


How do I deal with this shit? I'm really getting tired of it. And therapy doesn't help, we've tried it and my parents go back to the sane shit.
Their parenting obviously has flaws, my older sister is anorexic, my brother I'd a shut in, and my other other brother killed himself at 24. Now I know why...

 

you're 23! move the fuck out!

 

Obviously, if it were that simple, I would have fucking done it by now, don't you think? Nothing is ever as simple as we'd like.

 

why is it not that simple?

 

It's just not. I have to deal with this shit for the time being until I'm able to leave.

 

it's the internet, you don't need to keep secrets.

 

With the information were given there really isnt much to say except that its time for you to move out. Do you have a job? If not, thats step one. At 23 if you aren't happy living with your parents then you shouldn't be. There's no other advice to give unless you let us in on why you cant move out. All I can say is that you need to try and expedite whatever it is that needs to happen before you can move out.

 

this is your answer

you just have to deal with it until you're able to leave

 

But that's the thing, I can't deal with it much longer. I almost socked my mom in the face today.

There's a very complex story behind my situation.


Basically, I can't move out because of my health issues.

 

he's an aspie

find a job that you could maintain and move out...they can't keep you in their house because of your health. it is YOUR health.

 

try weed...people say it helps with health issues and stress :sifone:

 

Because of my health issues it's hard to keep a job. I'd rather not recover from invasive surgery under an overpass.

 

I have been trying to get my hands on weed forever!
Kinda hard to go pick up when when you try to leave the house you get asked a jillion questions. And if I said I'm going to a friends house, they'd call the parents and ask if I was there just about every hour.

 

yeah weed is awesome. you need to set your parents straight dude.

tell your mom to go get you some doobies!!

 

why don't you just tell us what your health issues are? you don't have to be so secretive

 

I have a recurring tumor (in my right butt cheek of all places) and a displaced hip

They had to cut open my butt hole >_<

 

so what stops you from working a job and moving out? are you not able to get around at all?

 

I need to have an invasive surgery every 6 months or so on my ass. I have a months recovery time afterward. Boss's usually don't like workers who have to leave for about a month n half every six months then come back and can't work full shifts for another month.

 

you're telling me, youve got a minced butthole and your parents are trying to tell you to clean dishes, make them food and do whatever the fuck else they want you to do?!

tell them fuck that!! you and your butthole needs some god damn weed! and you should tell em to make YOU fucking food! They don't have fucked up buttholes like you do!

 

where do you live, aren't you able to get disability pay or something?