He is with distance relationship with a girl ,while away they use skype . Around 2 years , and they meet and stay together only two months each year . This year is different , he will pay everything (tickets, food shelter and everything) . i told his why he has to pay everything , because she wanted to visit new places without him . For her he is a important part of her life and she isn't ready for serious relationship , but she doesn't call him boyfriend . I mean paying everything for her (we are talking a big amount of money) . What you call these kind of male . Maybe idiot ???
Not an idiot. He either truly cares about her (I met a man online 850 miles away, stayed with him for the summer and now am moving down there near him to see if we can work things out seriously). Or, he's deep in the friendzone and keeps trying to claw his way out of it without realizing that the more you give women a chance to walk all over you, most women will and he has yet to realize that.
i hope you the best . good luck . i think he is wasting his time . two year , lived together more than 5 months. But she clearly got bored . She wanted this summer spend without him , and she will spend it . But my friend insist ,so she will come here everything free . My idiot friend will spend lot of money just for her lazy ass for two month .
She's probably not 'bored' per se as much as she may just be more adventurous than he is. There is probably a lot deeper things going on within their 'relationship' that you don't know about, no sense in calling her a lazy ass or your friend an idiot, if they are trying to work things out then they will, not everything is easy and not all soul mates have everything in common. You never know.
until now . 3 plus me say dumass . 1 he is not dumass . and 1 white vote . but still he will waste lot off money for her . and with these money worked hard for a nice Peagut 307 .
I did say he was a "nice" dumass. I'm going to assume the dude in your post is you. Your a hell of a nice guy and apparently you have some money to blow. Your givin your all to a girl who'll skype with you and will see you very so often but when it came to spending time with you, she opted out. You want a women who's ready to be in a relationship or at least loyal to just you. I think she just leading you on, theres even a episode of this on "how I met Your Mother". I highly suggest you look for someone in your area. get a group of guys together and hit up a strip club and make it rain on them hoes!
i am not this dude , i am married . i may be 23 but i did all my homework . manage get good business . my friend is a real good heart and hard worker . he really wanted a car , would help a lot him with working . but if we wants her , i am ok . i will help him buying the car .
Get the car, that way he could make more money to blow on her next year. Sorry that I'm harsh on dude but these are mistakes I made on a woman years ago.
write more my friend , i will show this to him . i am against him . if she doesn't want , fuck off. there is someone better out there that will appreciate him . but he doesn't want to hear me .
The guy needs to quit thinking with his penis and start using his brain. She's obviuosly taking him for whatever she can.
prostitutes and strippers will show more appreciation than his "friend". Tell him, get a nice as car, put some rims and the girls will come. A nice as car alone will get him a girl with a nice ass.
Is he in an iron mask? (Note:literary gag. Dumas wrote The Man in the Iron Mask. Dumas. Dumass. Geddit??) To OP.....why is it your concern? If the dude isn't complaining, let it be.
