Fiance afraid of vaginas

You wear a strap-on and see if that makes a difference in his attitude.

 

Starship Troopers




At the end the Brain Bug, which just looks like a Big Vagina sucks his brains out. I should never have watched that movie

With Alien, I always thought the little baby Alien was cute

 

offer to have a MMF threesome with a 3rd party bi-sexual male. See how your bf/fiance reacts to everything. Tell the other dude to make an attempt on your guy, he may or may not do something gay.

If that was too crazy...watch a little gay porn and see what he does.

worst case is he's really just grossed out by vagina's.

 

I assure you, he IS gay.

If you continue with this guy, your self esteem is going to be shot to hell.

Sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship.

 

If it is bad now it will only get worse in time! Ask yourself if you can be happy never being sexually satisfied. I tried it for years with my ex wife and was never happy. I now know what I spent all those years missing out on with my current girl and would never live life that way again. I don't care what anyone says a strong sexual bond it a huge part of a relationship.

 

Vaginas are supposed to be slimy and wet and all girly-smelling; that's exactly what I love about them-and any normal guy loves them just the way they are. He's either gay or has some psychological hangup. Maybe both.

I don't think its that he may be gay, he identified as being asexual before.

Oh, asexual, great-at least there's hope :tongue:

 

Exactacalacaly

 

Wow... I'm so sorry to hear that... I'm going to go ahead with the other posters and talk about the strong possibility of being gay. Maybe he says he's asexual because he's not ready to admit to himself that he's gay...

Either way, I would strongly suggest not rushing into tying the knot. This is clearly eating you up inside and no woman wants to spend her life with someone who describes their lady parts as ''slimey and gross''. That's super harsh.

I'm sure most straight men on here can agree that there's nothing scary about pussy. Seriously, it's delicious!

 

That is ridiculous.

 

Thank you guys for taking the time to responding to me.
I'd just like to let you know that him and I spoke about it more and everything is going to be okay.
It's a bit complicated to get into detail of the discussion, but I will say this.
He is not gay. This is 100% true.
Again, thank you guys.

 

I hope you come back in several months with an update -- I'm sorry, but
I really think he's gay.

I dated a guy who with-held his sexual preferences from me -- when
we were first going out, he said the SAME thing about vaginas being
slimy and gross.
It disturbed me at the time --- but I blocked it out because I thought
I 'loved' him...hmf
It did more than disturb me, it felt like something was off, but I didn't
catch it and it made me feel 'unwanted' as a woman.

It wasn't until we lived together for a year that the truth started coming
out -- he said he was 'bi' -- but he was mostly attracted to men.
He clearly wasn't interested in vaginas at all. That's all I'll divulge about
that...but it messed me up SO bad.
What a MESS I went through!!!

I truly hope, for your sake, that this guy isn't lying to you.
But, I'm afraid that he may be.

 

Exactly-if it walks like a duck, looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a duck! DUH! If a guy doesn't like vaginas, he's not straight-it's as simple as that. And these guys that say they're 'asexual', 'bi', this kinda thing-all this means is that they're gay. The sooner you can come to terms with that the better.

 

Well, my ex boyfriend mislead me. Looking back, I see the signs and when we lived together it came out and got worse and worse.
I'm an attractive woman and him doing that really messed with my head and made me feel very bad about myself for a long while.
He also blamed me for him being gay, which I know now is a total lie.
He started asking me strange things like to be the 'man' in bed with him...
I'm a very feminine woman -- and although I'm very sexual and can get into kinky things - I was extremely offended and hurt by this. It made me wonder why I wasn't good enough to him. He never made love to me or made me orgasm. Sex was like - he put it in till he came, then we were done.
Most of the time, he masturbated and was completely happy with that.
Even though I was right there.

So when I did come to terms with it, I had him move out.
I haven't had any regrets.

 

Wow, blamed you for him being gay-that takes the cake. A guy either loves you and is straight or not-and if you try to rationalize about that, it'll just make you feel like you're nobody. That's the conclusion I had to come to about my ex and our 'sex life'-the problems we had were entirely on her side and had nothing to do with me. If you start blaming yourself you won't solve his problems and you'll only feel worse about yourself

 

a series of misfortunate events

 

It did make me feel like a nobody.
I'm work on feeling better about myself all the time, but that
stuff scars you. I'm way way way better than I used to be.
I think the most common thing people say to me is "why don't you
know you are pretty?"

I look back and I can't believe the things I tolerated for 'love'.

I'm sorry about your ex.

 

Sorry, but if he ain't liking the p*ssy, he's gay.

 

Maybe YOUR vagina is gross, but mine is hot and sexy. psh.

 

I consider myself bi. Before I ever went down on a vagina I most definitely considered it "gross and slimy" and I because cum kind of turns me off, the thought of a permanently wet slit down there kind of freaked me out. I always assumed that I would enjoy once I actually had some experience with it, and truth be told, that is EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED!! Men are hard wired to love that hatchet wound, even though if you actually think about it, it's fucking disgusting (imo). Even tho I can still imagine the "fucking disgusting" version of a pussy, I yearn for it and would suck and tickle and fuck and do anything and everything with it in an instant.

I would need some more info before offering a decent opinion tho. If dicks are gross to him (which I absolutely love, but can 100% understand how it could be gross) then that starts a whole nothing discussion. What does he think of when he jacks off? If vaginas are disgusting to him, he's probably not fantasizing anything about it. Is he fantasizing about a throbbing penis in or around one of his orifices? Does he just jack off thinking about close to a loving other? I know that I absolutely LOVE Cuddling. I would go as far as saying that just being in or having the other person in my arms who I truly love and want to spend the rest of my life with would be nearly as close to sex as I can get on the happy-meter. (tho this could change slightly as I get more experience, and making love could very well pull ahead, but I don't currently think it will ever get that far ahead)

I hope my reply has shed some light on how I, as a definitely bi person, thinks. I love cock. I love pussy. But I used to think pussy was gross, I definitely don't any more tho, and because he does.... It's hard to understand his perspective fully at this point without more information.

Hope this helped!

 

That's about the rudest thing a man could say to a woman. I don't know how after hearing a comment like that ,a woman could ever get close to the person. The OP thinks it's all worked out,but I doubt it.