Is it usual after the first date a guy invite himself over to your house for coffee, and you live in a dorm because he prefer your place since he cant concentrated at the coffee shop and for to many people and big place. I mean if he wants sex he could say come to my place but why he wants to come to my place . I live in a small room people usually want to have coffee out not in a small room right???????????? I really want to what he is after?
Maybe he's too cheap to pay for coffe + cake at a coffee shop Maybe he wanted to use that line - you make coffee, I'll bring the cake Though I don't know why he wouldn't just bring you to his place if you live in a dorm. Maybe he is homeless? Or maybe his place is dirty and smelly? Edit: Oh yeah, he is probably after what most people are after. Companionship and a chance for some sexual intercourse!
maybe he has roomates and wants to be able to fire some coffee into your cake, if you know what i mean, eh eh