So lately for some reason i have been pointing out some obvious stuff that she knows, i dont mean to do it but it just comes out i dont think about what am going to say. She keeps saying am not stupid you know and i done it again by mistake not meaning it today and she went nuts, saying am not f'ing stupid you know and hung up the phone she wasn't to happy, she texts me saying dont bother with this weekend. dont want to be spoken to like am stupid. I don't mean to do it i phoned her and explained but she was saying i was speaking to her like shes stupid ( i can see where she is coming from) but i aint meaning it and am certainly not calling her stupid i love her. She said just leave her alone but i want to make it better. What should i do?
I suppose u could stop pointing out obvious stuff that she knows. Focus on what u're saying and pay attention to the person u're talking to. If u find that u are incapable of doing that and u keep saying things u "didn't mean to say", then forgive my bluntness but : maybe u just don't love your gf as much as u think.
I cant say for sure but just a guess (and im 41 was married 14yrs) but to me it kinda sounds like shes looking 4 a reason to be difficult thts jus my opinion...whenever a woman says some shit like tht to me i say stfu and if my gf said "dont bother about the weekend"? I would say cool talk 2 ya next week dont let a woman run you with her foul mood..im not sayn be showvanistic or a dick but if somethin bothers u tell her and if it continues? Tell her goodbye
She obviously has issues with her own intelligence. And maybe you should stop playing Captain Obvious. If she said to leave her alone, she either means leave her alone, or she means definitely don't leave her alone. That one's hard to figure out in person, let alone through text. I guess you should do what you want to do - but not out of a sense of obligation to her. What you really want to do.
So sumone didnt like my post wut i was saing is if she is going to get all in a dither over something like you explained than there is more to it than u just pointing out the obvious i like to call it early signs of relationship trouble. And if she is going to scrap a weekend your relationship has more problems than you pointing out obvious things so like it or not there it is!
im pretty sure your girlfriend is stupid shes just playing games when it comes to the weekend. that kind of thing annoys the shit out of me, only stupid girls do it, and I would take the advice of Peter Dragon on this one... unless your being mean when you point out things, tell her to stfu
First, are you pointing out things that can't be changed quickly, like weight? Do you think she might see it as nagging? What if the tables were turned, how would you like it?
