I usually think a punishment spanking should be bare and with one implement, but I am toying with the following scenario: All steps are until I am near tears bent over couch: Step one: paddle on jeans. Step two: paddle on briefs Step three: belt on briefs Step four: belt on bare Step five: either brush otk bare until crying or paddle over couch on bare until crying. Any ideas or comments?
Add some humiliation to the higher steps. Have it so you have to stay there bent over the couch after she spanks you.
How about refining the last part as follows: I think spankee should be nude. Oil the buttocks and anus. Use a thin leather tawse or similar supple leather strap on the bare bottom until the skin is hot and sore. Strap the oiled bare skin until it makes you want to cry or dance or both. Then reach back and spread the buttocks so that the oiled anus can be hand spanked. A good cry and emotional release is likely.
I like the process. This is my fav: Paddle on Jeans/pants while bent over (can be just bent over, bent over desk, over my knee, depends on where I am as to where I want him) Paddle on undies while bent over Paddle on bare (just a few-- I use a paddleball paddle) Allowed to stand up & rub out sting while I scold. Hand spanking bare over my knee to fully warm up (this can be done in rounds if needed--hand hurts) A little corner time if I decide I need a break Make him go get the chair or stool & use his own belt if he wears one, bend him over with his legs spread enough to put his feet on the outside of the chair legs. A little belt spanking. I also like making him put the belt up & making him get the ruler or get a switch. Positioning is fun. The more vulnerable the position, the better.
For me: belt is the ultimate punishment. I hate that thing. But in my oppinion brush should come before paddle. If I keep pushing and being bad (sometimes I do) I'll get brush on bare, leaning over the knee with nipple clamps being tugged on. Just some suggestions.
Wait, aren't you the girl with the unresponsive vagina? If doing the whole discipline thing isn't getting you off, why are you doing it?
Couldn't have said it better myself. I do have orgasms, just never through intercourse. Even though the orgasm is often the destination. The journey is just as often the destination.
