Why are big areolas considered unattractive?

Surgery has nothing to do with kindness or selfishness...unless you're speaking about in general, which is fine, but downplaying looks is naive

 

Hmmm I thought you didn't care about what we thought?

Also I noticed while looking at those pics that they not oly had the areola reduction it was a total breast reduction.

Either way I still wish you the best and hope this sees you happy and not just a stepping stone in the quest for the perfect body.

 

It's for people who maybe do want an update.

Thank you

 

I was talking about attractiveness in general.

 

oh okay

 

Lol.....

Check out them scars.

I still think this is dumb, but if you must, make sure you get some of that scar-treatment tape and use it a long time.... would be silly to go under the knife for looks and come out of it looking like you've got zipper-tits.

You DO realize..... this won't make people not pay attention to your boobs, this will make them be like holy fuck, what happened to you.... and then you get to tell the whole story, of how you got em sawed on. There's really no way out of that......

 

It's a good thing not everyone is as judgmental as you then

 

So you're getting your bewbs chopped up because you think everyone's judging you for them, but if I mention that people WILL wonder why it looks like you have zippers on the undersides of them, you call me judgmental?

 

Judging by your posts and attitude, you're judgmental
But that's fine.

 

small areolae look more appealing and inviting so i'm not against a girl getting surgery for them. I think I would be more upset if you were talking about implants because those are also a turnoff. but i prefer small ones. i'm not sure why they just look cuter and less messy on the skin. plus they are more sensitive because the nerve endings aren't stretched

 

Cutting out nerves does not make titties more sensitive.

Additionally, not everyone has the same number of nerve endings, there's no reason to expect it to be "stretched" or not properly calibrated because of things being larger.

 

the nerves re attach after surgery. small tits are more sensitive than big ones because their nerves are less stretched and same with areolae

 

Bullshit!

I have big tits and areolae and they are pretty sensitive......

 

-rep for mindless answer, and ignoring most of my post.

Pretty sure you're a persona of the OP.

 

my last girlfriend had small tits and areolae and she told me thats how it works but i only have man nipples lol

 

lol whatever

 

Because society is unfair and no matter what you look like you'll always be judged.

I say fuck what everyone else thinks!

 

I had the gap bc I've always been skinny but I've put on weight recently and my thighs touch now...I feel much sexier now, more curvaceous

 

My wife has big tits and large nipples they look very good on her tits but on a smaller set they may look funny? IMHO

 

May 21 update:
since late March I've been seeing a guy and luckily he lives in my city back here, home. It wasn't until recently that we have become intimate because I'm not really open with anybody. anyways, yeah, we've had sex, seen each other naked. He seems to like my boobs and responds well to playing with them because they're ultra sensitive. I told him my plan to get a reduction and he told me it's stupid and a waste of $
he also said it's not worth losing sensitivity and that he thinks mine are sexy and fun to play with

anyhow, I also chickened out because a relative of mine had breast reconstruction for tubular breasts and I know she sort of needed the surgery, but she looked tore up during recovery. She said the pain was hell & 10x worse than nose surgery, which we've both had(she had a deviated septum, I broke my nose). I remember how crappy that was and the pain was absolute hell, but it doesn't help that I'm such a wimp with pain.

Anyways, i cancelled the surgery and luckily I hadn't paid lol

It's still hard to feel good about myself even though he likes my breasts because I still hang out on the forum that I do and I see them say nasty things about big nipples and areolas and they make fun of them. I guess I shouldn't listen to them because a majority of the guys on that site are 20 something year old virgins who bitch and complain about girls having preferences yet they have no problem going out of their way to make girls feel bad for things such as a large labia(even though I don't have one, they still shouldn't be rude about it) or how much they dislike big breasts or hate curly hair.

anyways, I still dislike them and maybe I won't be such a wimp in the future, but I'd still love for them to be reduced because I'm uncomfortable with them and hate them and hate even looking at them in the mirror. I try to like them and find the positives in them but I hate it. I find larger ones attractive on other females(i'm strictly dickly tho) but hate them on myself.
anyways, it's just an update