hello! i'm in a long distance relationship because of my studies, and it's been so hard!! we really love each other, and we do see each other every month, but still, sometimes i feel like i can't take it any more... luckily the university year is almost over, but i have another year coming... i just miss him so much, it's horrible... does anybody have any advice as to how to make it easier? even some happy stories about some of you who were/are in long distance relationships will help.
Skype? Sexy snail mail? Sending little 'naughty' things to each other? Wish I could help more.... Hope it works outx
my bf has a really crappy internet at home, so skype is a bit difficult, but we do text kinky stuff all the time. and pictures too, love that . thanks for the reply
ive been in a long distance relationship a couple of times the first was a 4mnth stint the second time a year long the first 1 she was in europe I living and working in canada i could not visit due to cost and had to let her do her thing it was very hard for me and a huge learning curve i overcame and things worked out. the second time she left was to go to school in mexico for 1 year agin no preoblem for me im used to it and again i was working in canada but this time i decided to join her after 6 mnths for a mnth and we backpacked mexico together and i left her there 30 days later 6 mnths later she returned a new women and because of this we had to break up due to her infedelity while she was there.. a 8 yr realtionship down the tubes because she thought it was ok to fuck around not all people are like this and im not sure what your situation is but if i were you i would move on for the time being and when this person returns see if you can make a go out of it again.... from experience move on youll be much happier! just an opinion.......
thanks but i can't move on, i love him and he loves me... in a month i'm going back home for the summer, and then, just one year... i know we can do this... it's just hard, but i'm not breaking up with him. i don't sleep around and he doesn't either (as far as i know, but i'm pretty sure). i'm looking for happy stories!! ) sorry your relationship of 8 years ended because of infidelity... that sucks..
I was in 2 long distance relationships. One ended because he cheated. The second hasn't ended yet. I can tell you, some people can make it work. Not many though. The only reason my boyfriend and I are still together is because we moved in together. It was getting too hard after a year and a half seeing each other only once a month.
You need to live your life no matter what and living it sad is no way to go about it! If its meant to be you'll make it work I do wish you the best!
distance shouldn't be an issue as time as love is in the air I am happy to hear that your love is so big...so keep it going like now