Hi all, This thread is mainly addressed to women, but men who've had experience in this area are welcome to post as well. So, when I've had relations with girls and we do anything sexual - from handjobs, to blowjobs, to actual intercourse - I am almost never able to climax. It feels great - like I'm on the verge - for the entire time we're doing it, but I never seem to quite reach the point of no return... My question is do women prefer a man who comes quickly, or a man who can last for a very very very long time?
Usually only after i have been drinking alcohol i take ages to cum, and my wife prefers me to be a bit faster. By no means over in 2 minutes of course but faster than 40 minutes lol.
For me, it's not about duration but rather timing. I will typically orgasm once before intercourse and then again during intercourse but it takes quite a bit longer. For me, it's ideal if he can hold off until right after I get off a second time. If he cums before I'm finished, then I will usually finish up with my Hitatchi.
I like guys who have good control and can match duration to the mood of the encounter; that and it's fun to test just how good that control is!
Depends on the mood and situation. Control is important to match it. For love making - I want lots of foreplay, plenty of oral both ways, followed by slow passionate sex in a few positions. Can be quite happy taking an hour or more doing all that. However a quick - shove it in, bang away for a minute or two and shoot his load is fine sometimes too. I've had sex in under 2 mins before where he just wanted to get his rocks off and I wasn't in the mood for anything else. On average I'd say my sex lasts around 20 mins. I'm happy with that. I did have a boyfriend once that never lasted long, usually only 5-10 mins max. But he could either keep going after he came, or he'd recover in a few mins and be able to go again. He was able to cum 5-6 times before he was done. So when I had sex with him it lasted around an hour, but he would cum 5-6 times in 5-10 min rounds. I really enjoyed it!
Normally lately hes been lasting 10 or 15 minutes, enough for him but i need at least 20 minutes or some extremely electrifying sex to get there before then. but when hes drunk he'll last for 3 or 4 hours, but half the time just wont come. i would prefer him to last a bit longer when not drunk so i can get there more but im very glad he doesn't take a couple of minutes
