My girlfriend doesn't like cum. After we have sex I always pull out and I would like for her to swallow or just cum on her but she won't let me. I end up having to finish myself off while she watches. I want to talk to her but what should I say? How can I convince her to let me cum on her?
awwww, welcome to the club. I dont know how you could convince her, but if you find out, let me know because! I tried talkin, its like talkin to your balls, no responses.
If she tells you no, then there is nothing you can do. Back off and jizz somewhere else and respect her wishes
Maybe you should ask her why she does not like it and you will then at least have a better understanding. Maybe she will change her mind. I don't think she will if you pressure her too much so maybe just have a low-key conversation? Good luck, give us an update when you can
does she understand that her making you cum is why sex is awesome? why does she make you finish yourself?
my does and always ask me . this cum is sweet , did you had any chocolate today ? and other stuff like that .
I suspect that the reason you want to get her to take your semen into her mouth in the first place is because of your fantasising about doing things in the way the typical porn video set-ups portray it. Personally, when I feel myself approaching orgasm I am driven by animal instinct to increase my thrusting pace, and on the ultimate moment to bury myself as deep as I possibly can, with a natural yearning to go even further to maximise the potential for a successful conception (I emphasise this is an instinctive drive, not a concious decision). However, I did used to have one girlfriend who loved to take it in her mouth, and while I would do my best to fulfill her wishes, it was very difficult to overcome my natural urges. It is because of this that I find the obligitary 'money shot' tends to ruin so many porn videos, which would otherwise be extremely arousing. In the same way, it is very rare that you will ever find a video which includes the use of a condom to completion which, in reality, would probably happen 90% of the time, but in the world of porn, only 0.5% of the time. Personally I find the sight of a man withdrawing, post-ejaculation, with a filled condom teat hanging from a softening penis highly arousing, as it is a situation I can relate to, making it all the more realistic.
my gf not . call her idiot call her bitch ,but she liked to take my semen . she never saw any porn . never , and i believe her . . we have sex twice everyday . but only time she take it is when we have a really good and passion sex . she like it because this is the way when a passion sex be completed . but most time she like it on her boobs , ass .
I suggest you try amateur porn where they wear condoms or make your own. I fully understand your urge to thrust hard and fast into a vagina, but it's easy to pull out and cum in the females mouth. You can continue thrusting in her mouth. Some would say the orgasm in the females mouth feels better than a vaginal one. I have no idea what it's like because I haven't had either in over 7-8 years.
my first girlfriend was somewhat similar to the OP - actually, identical. As we mature i guess we just learn to find other people that conform to us and we to them. Gotta find that person that makes u happy in all regards.
Get rid of her unless you want to spend your whole life going thru this disappointment. If you don't, 20 years from now you'll be kicking yourself in the ass.
I love cum, it's even healthy. I just hate tasting men when there drunk. Just talk to your girlfriend and make her feel comfortable.
Seems really silly to me. Cum is great. But there's nothing you can do other than respect her wishes.
My wife, swallows my cum when she strictly sucks my dick (no sex), she spits it out and doesn't like the taste either, but she does let me cum in her mouth. As far as cumming during sex I cum inside her so that is not an issue. I agree with the post above, you have to respect how she feels, She probably doesn't like the taste and as far as cumming on her she probably doesn't like the feeling of being sticky. Ways you can try to ease her into maybe accepting doing it once in a while is to talk about it, find out if there is something she likes/wants, that you don't and try to give each other a new experience, sometimes it just takes for you to give to receive. Hope that helps.
Out of the 30+ women I've been with......I cannot remember one that didn't want me to cum onto her. Not one. There have been plenty who didn't want it around face/hair but even they did want it on their stomach/ass/back/tits/etc.