possessive girls....

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by shrimpgirl, Dec 18, 2004.

  1. shrimpgirl

    shrimpgirl Member

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    how do i deal with another girl feeling possessive over my bf?? even he admits that she does (she's a good friend of his) but doesn't see anything wrong with it... it's driving me nuts, cuz i do! she never really acknowledges that we're a couple.... and writes him emails saying stuff like "i wish you were here so i could have you all to myself" maybe i'm freaking out for nothing, but i dunno, doesn't seem right that she's so openly possessive about i guy who has a girlfriend​
    ... peace​
     
  2. shrimpgirl

    shrimpgirl Member

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    k, actually, may as well just tell the whole thing...
    it's been a long time that this has been going on and i really haven't dealt with it well, but basically put it at the back of my mind and thought it had gone away....
    but just lately i've started to become obsessed about her again, i seriously scare myself...
    i check her online journal every day, try to read into anything she's fucking wrote, even her msn names... i'm totally paranoid
    i don't know how to just get over this and forget about it... i thought before that she'd just dissapear from my life cuz she moved away, but apparently she's gonna saty very much a part of my life and i have to deal with her
    why am i so fucked up? hehe no seriously

    anyway
    ...peace
     
  3. RainbowCat

    RainbowCat Senior Member

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    oh, you're not over-exaggerating. this girl is being over possesive. if i were you, i'd fight her. but you probably wont. so tell her abouit it, talk to her about it. talk to him about it more. if he sees this over-friendly relationship as o.k., then he might think it o.k. to cheat on you
     
  4. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    You could kill her [​IMG]


    Or not.


    How about having a talk with her?
     
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