Like many people, I have fantasies that I would never actually carry out. I teach at a college, and sometimes I have fantasies about having a fling with a student, even though I would never actually do it. Very occasionally I have had students be a bit flirtatious, and I let me mind run with it a bit. A few years ago, a girl came to my office to talk about a paper she was writing. We were both looking at the computer screen, and she was standing in back of me. She moved in sort of close to me, and moved her foot up against mine. I kept control of myself, but I did have to resist the urge to say something flirtatious. She was very sexy and had a flirtatious streak. I always wondered what would have happened had I pursued it. Although I would never actually do it, the idea does sometimes cross my mind: after hours, fucking a cute 19-year old student in my office. When female students have been flirtatious with me, I think their goal is to motivate me to boost their grade, which I would never do. There were only rare cases where I thought a student acted like she was attracted to me. I'm only rather average looking. On the other hand, sometimes I think if I worked out more and had a chiseled body, some of these girls might be susceptible. Again, I would never do anything, but it is a hot fantasy... "oh professor X has a hot body..." and I end up banging her.
they say some fantasies are better left unfullfilled, or something like that me? I'd probably get my self fired...
you only live once - but you can get fired many many many times in your life. WHat better way than sexual misconduct lol Nah, seriously if I had a fantasy, i'd WANT to carry it out, but whether it was right or appropriate would matter a lot. If it meant I'd lose a job in my industry forever, id probably avoid it. Then again, I'd quite like the fact it was wrong and fucking risky. But yeah, in that kinda situation I may not push it, but if the opportunity came to me from the other person I don't think, being honest with myself, I would say no.
I knew a former high school teacher that only got his license revoked for banging a student. Very lucky indeed. He was friends with my brother at the same highschool that he taught (and created scandal) at when I attended. It was reported in the news that he was arrested (even though he wasn't) so his name was still a little trashed temporarily. If you have a good job, and you like what you do -- sadly, this is a temptation you must keep on resisting. Very hot though.
That's really hot. It sucks that it could put your job at risk - or I'd say go for it. Unfortunately, you never know how much you could trust someone to keep their mouth shut about something until after the fact. But it probably wouldn't be worth constantly having to worry about being found out. As far as you working out more - it may draw a certain type, yeah - but you can still be found very attractive with an average/normal body type. Something hot about the thoughts of doing your attractive teacher.
I'm glad you enjoyed the fantasy. Its hard to imagine how it would have progressed from the mild flirtation until sex. As she stood there next to me while I was showing her stuff on the computer, I got a major hard-on, and I recall being concerned about whether she noticed or not. At the end of it, I can imagine that feeling after I came of "oh my GOD, I can't believe I just did that."
Risking the job over a flick ? You're right, definitely not worth it, For now ! Maybe in time even you will meet your match and give in ! Good luck if that day comes! Maybe it leads to something good
Several years ago, someone who identified herself as one of my students drunk dialed me at 1 in hr morning (at that time I made the mistake of giving students my cellphone number) . She left a message on my voicemail saying she just wanted to make out with me. I wasn't certain who it was, but I had suspicions about one particular student. She was cute and the idea of staying late for her to come to my office to make out with me was a recurring fantasy. Well except in the fantasy she's not just making out weigh me, she's giving me a blowjob in her underwear. Here are times when female students will email me with something like, "I'm really worried about my grade, is thee anything I can possibly do to improve it?" I assume they're typically thinking of regular extra credit, although I have wondered at times.
Since I live far from the college where I teach, I almost never run into students, current or former, when I'm in my neighborhood. Strangely enough, I did run into a student from years past whom I had fantasized about in the post above. Apparently she works in the area. She was very friendly and sexy as ever. It certainly had me excited.
You keep saying you never actually do anything. Why the hell not??! Do you have religious mroality holding you back, or loyalty to your spouse? Teacher-student integrity? All bollox - the girls you speak of are adults, not children, and you owe no issue of 'trust' with them. There's no crime in it. Go for it, idiot! (I don't mean that nastily). You only live once, and one day you might regret it when you are passed the age of being attractive to them.
or he might regret going for it when he's unemployed. there's nothing illegal or immoral about telling your boss to go fuck himself but that doesn't make it a good idea.
More often than not you will find that there is a clause in the initial employment contract that prohibits any relationship between teacher & student, regardless of being of consensual age. Therefore, while it may not be a 'legal' issue as far as underage sex is concerned, it is still one which can easily bring about being fired - and once you have anything to do with having been dismissed for sexual impropriety on your record, you are highly unlikely to ever get a similar position ever again. Your career would be over.
fantasies stop being fantasies once they're done. a great fantasy is one that's only JUST out of the reach of achievability. wether that's from moral implications/preventing yourself from actually doing them, or current physical impossibility, is irrelivent. fantasies kept fantasies are harmless. acting on them is another story
