bf issue : i need advice from guys plz

hi my problem is my bf somtimes get in a mood where he doesnt wanna talk to me wen i ask him he gets mad and say its not about u, few days ago he told me he needs time off for him self, but today he said hi well i replied hi after that were all silent, i dont understand if he wants me to stay away or stay with him even that we dont talk much, i asked him if u want us to stop talking for atleast two weeks he said nah, i know he loves me alot and me too but i just dont know what is the right thing to do i need advice please.....thank u.

 

Hes losing interest. Sick of the daily grind of your relationship so hes trying to take a break now and then without losing it completely because hes too indecisive to break up.

 

He wont b able to break up with me he knows how much i mean to him plus we are 5 years togather, but he has this attitude somtimes hes an asshole somtimes hes sweet thats wat i dont understand

 

maybe he's an introvert and you just won't stop talking.

 

Not rly i become quiet all the time and he was wondering why well i told him, he just got sad and thought am ignoring him and dont wanna talk to him but i do but since hes being quiet i dont wanna bother him i just wait for him to talk to me again then i start talking loli

 

OK, I'm not saying this to be flippant, but a lifetime of experience has taught me that where it comes to interpersonal communication, there's always a disconnect between women, who tend to desire verbal exchange, and men, whose preferred channel of communication is via their genetalia. I know that's a bit simplistic way of putting it, but that's 9/10 times where the problem is when women feel their partner isn't interested in 'sharing' - it's because she hasn't been particularly 'sharing', either. I'm not saying this necessarily pertains to you - I have no way of assessing whether you've been neglecting your man sexually - but what I am trying to sketch is men's brains are wired just a little bit differently from women's where it comes to verbal communication.

 

Yea i guess ur right thanks for your comment, its true men somtimes dont like to talk, especially wen they have some personal problems, so ive learned the best thing to do is to give him some space from time to time, before i used to get mad wen he doesnt talk all the time but now mostly were silent, especially me i used to talk alot but i became quiet cuz i dont want him to think am annoying or frustrated woman like a talking radio lol plus am tierd of arguing all the time mostly for pointless or silly things, so i keep on learning wats the right thing to do.....