Okay, so I got me some Ben Wa Balls. I was wondering if anyone knows about how long it will take before I can tell a difference in my tightness? I appreciate the info!
I thought part of the purpose of Ben Wa balls was to strenghthen your vaginal muscles making it tighter. Stay Brown, Rev J
That is like asking when your abs will be flatter, there really is not a specific answer. Just use them regularly to do your kegels, wear them around when you can and work on it and you should gradually see an improvement. All you can do it exercise the muscles and the rest is up to your physiology. I started feeling a noticeble difference during sex and toy play within a few weeks, and trust me, it will be the best "workout" you have ever had
I have a pair myself that I have yet to use. I need to strengthen my muscles up there because sometimes when I sneeze I pee a little.
A visual. Have you seen the pair of balls used for hand exercise? You hold the pair in one hand and rotate them around each other with only the muscles of that one hand. Now practice a similar exercise with the muscles of your vagina. Practice, practice, pactice!!!
Believe it or not this came up on one of my long hair boards. In doing some searching for that thread, I found this. Enjoy.
These are pretty serious. They work better than just 2 balls because the weight is graduated as your muscles become tighter. http://medgo.com/vaginal-cones/step-free-vaginal-cones/step-free
It's a shame there are no larger Ben Wa balls that can be inserted into the anus that are just as suitable for vaginal insertions? Unless anyone has used something similar but larger?
Well, the anus, actually lower colon, is very different than the vagina. The colon has peristalsis, which moves waste out of the body. The vagina is actually designed for both directions- drawing a penis in and pushing a baby out. That means the actual muscle tissue is different. The colon is smooth muscle, and involuntary (aside from some sphincter control). The vagina is more like voluntary muscles in the way the muscle cells lie and how they fire/use ATP. There is also the issue of objects having a lot more room to roam, and cause damage, in the colon.
Have you read Fifty Shades of Grey? The Guy puts those balls inside her just befor they go to a party, and they felt so good she almost orgasmed, she had to excuse herself and go and remove them. Have any of you found this to be true, the feeling, the vibration? How big are they? Wouldn't they just fall out? Are they heavy? One day I would like to try a pair.
They Ben Wha balls / duo balls: are about 35mm in diameter & aren't exactly heavy but have metal balls inside them about 10mm diameter which wobble about. Would they fall out (?) well only if you had a vagina with a large opening . Some duo balls have a soft outside covering & are flexible & others are made of solid plastic. They sell for about $9.90 in New Zealand thru a website that also gives them away with each order placed. Or if not in stock , you get either a 20% discount off your next order or a cheap vibrator. If you spend over $50 , you get free postage as well as 20% off your next order. Hope this answers some of your questions? Oh, how do I know they have a metal ball inside about 10mm diameter -well a soft plastic one I opened up once & thats what I found. But once opened, they are not repairable.
