good, glad i could help. wife and i think ourselves to be very....sexual i guess is the word, and tend to experiment a lot. so we have done almost everything. dont be shy to ask for advice.
Wand vibrator- there is a less expensive option, I cant fins the manufacturer, but the model is all body massager. Much cheaper than hitachi, still plugs in...and works on muscles, too. For those who don't know, 50 Shades is a piece o crap bodice ripper with bondage. That assumes anyone even slightly kinky is more than slightly mentally ill or damaged in some way. A basic no weird tools night would be a few scarves, clothespins(test on yourself first, ok?), Wooden spoon, ice.
oh yeah, wax candles, forgot about those . they can be pretty kinky. especially if she's blindfolded and you combine them with ice wand massagers, bullets, vibrators, dildos could be fun too, sure
Oh my god rent sleepless in seattle. Girls love that film. And just make it romantic. If it's the slightest bit weird, she's outta there.
Just use what you have.... Scarves or Ties, to tie her up and blindfold her. Ice cube's can work wonders too. Sometimes its simplicity if shes sees ya have a dungeon set up that might be a bit much lol