can sexual attraction be different to physical and emotional attraction

I've copied this post across for the Lesbian section cos I think it is a subject for us bi and gay guys also and we're not alowed to post in the Lesbian section.

"im attracted to girls, think their good looking, im attracted really only when i know they are bi or lesbian. prefer their personalities.

not really interested in guys even if their great looking. neither their personality.

though sexually i always have fantasies about being abused by older men. (obviously i dont want to act on this because i dont wanna feel dirty afterwards, but it is the only thing that turns me on) i think its the feelings of being way more attractive than them but their arrogance to do thing with me that really turns me on.

even though i get attention from guys i never had a bf because im not really in to them.

basically can what turns u on be different to who you like and are interested in???? it always seems like people are just interested in attractive people and personalities and that turns them on? :S "

I know for myself that I'm more emotionally attracted to women than guys, and also sexually to both, but love m2m sex. Gay sex really is a turn on for me and of course a guy with a nice perosnality is good, but I am also completely aroused by anonymous m2m sex when it is just basic sex and sensation.

As an older man I'm also a wee bit hurt by the lady's comment re. her hypothetical thought of feeling dirty if she had sex w an older man, and her comment suggesting an older guys arrogance at daring to have sex w her. I kno she's talking hypothetically but what about her own arrogance at assuming she is much more attractive than him because she's younger and she considers herself more beautiful.

that's ageist!

I neva want vto be thought of as a 'dirty old man' but I enoy sex with younger people, though i also have sex w people my own age, and I'm lucky as that many guys like an older guy - currently I have a 32 y o bf and have even been with a guy as young as 19; we both enjoyed it and found reasonable connection across 42 years apart from good sex.

What do other guys think?

Simon :sunny:

 

It's always been said that "A hard dick has no conscience" suggesting that us males are basically willing to have sex with anyone. In my teen years I was willing to let anyone suck my cock both male and female. As I grew older I stuck strictly with women. After my divorce a few years back I decided to see if this cliche still held true and hooked up with a guy about 10 years my junior to see if he could manage to get me erect and make me cum. The situation seemed wrong and somewhat unnatural, but I went forward with it. After he sucked on my flaccid penis for what seemed like quite some time I eventually became erect and did cum in his mouth. So I guess the old cliche still holds true.

I guess this cliche doesn't hold true in a woman's aspect. A wet pussy must have a conscience.