is for sex to not hurt anymore. I've been waiting for months now and it still hurts a lot of the time. Sigh, it is unfair that when it is so good for the guy, it is sometimes so painful for the girl....
It is usually painful pleasure, although sometimes it is just painful. We tried lube, but it didn't help that much. And my poor man feels so guilty everytime we have sex.
well when you are having sex are you usually tense?? if you are try to re;ax. ask your man to give you a back rub or what ever to relax you.
Talk to your doc/gyno... there are some medical conditions that can result in painful sex. It shouldn't be painful for the gal, ever (unless you want it to be, but you've said sometimes it's not good hurting) Lube lube lube, and FOREPLAY! I will never be ready for intercourse without decent foreplay.
Oh, I get excellent foreplay. We have foreplay for at least an hour before actually having sex everytime. I'm usually relaxed and everything too, at least lately I have been. My doctor actually told me before I had sex, that it would be extremely painful for me and that I should go slow. It's just cause I'm so small I guess....
That happens to my girlfriend too..i suggest just force it all the way in slowly..and dont really start going at it until its been all the way in and out a few times slowly...once its all in and it has moved it loosens up a lot and i know, in our, it pretty much stops hurting all together. Like i mean the first time we do it after not doing it for a logn itme hurts no matter what but under normal circumstance just let him take his time andp ush his whole length in no matter how much it hurts...then let him slide inand aout a few times until it loosens up enough...then start the acition..i really think thatll help a lot.... ...ooo yea and i dont really knwo how to put this but make sure your completely...READY....down there...if your nto all liek juiced up for whatever your cant really expect it to work..the natural lube is thei mportant one form my experience... alrighti hope this helped and good luck with everything...
