How to date again?

Im not trying to be funny.
But I had a 1yr + relationship and we broke up.
He's moved on greatly but I still stuck on how to date again.
Like I dont want to get on facebook & flirt.. that's weird.
I wanna go outside & stuff , but Im scared on what exactly to say or do.
Its been so long.
How do I date again ? Like or try to find someone?

 

There is no sure fire way.

The best I can say is too just go out and have fun mixing with people and I'm sure you'll see somebody who would catch your eye, then just start talking with them. Best thing to do is not stress over finding a Bf.

Plus you just broke up, chill out enjoy the single life don't want to fall into a rebound fling

 

Hmm . you're right , maybe I do just need to chill out.

 

lets see what you look like...put a pic in your album .....

fat chicks get different advice than skinny chicks...thats just reality

 

I put pics on here when I first started posting , but random dudes kept pm'ing me that I looked cute & stuff ...& they were old enough to be my father , so I deleted the pics .. I think a week or two ago . not so long ago , if you didn't see how I looked , I'm sorry.

 

i'm old enough to be your dad...that somehow prohibits me from commenting on your pictures?....just because an older dude says you are pretty doesnt mean he wants to stalk and fuck you or harrasse you...get a fuckin back bone..i have a daughter 33 that i always tell ''you look very pretty today'''...do you think i wanna bang her too...fuck you...no wonder you couldnt keep a boy friend....people here put their personal pics into ''private'' albums so they can control who see's them...you just made a really stupid internet mistake and are trying to blame ''old dudes''

 

old dudes is who i blame for all of life's problems, to be honest.

 

dumbass fucking read what i just said , im so tired of assholes saying stuff towards me that doesnt even relate to what the fuck i just said .. I didnt say anything about "commenting" i said "p'ming" its a fucking difference & i shouldnt have to put my album private ,to keep from old ass dudes from p'ming me .. Got it ?

And i guess you got offensive because you're "old enough to be my dad" ..
Anyways , you could've just answered the question , instead of making this into something stupid , by you not reading what the fuck i just said.

 

lol....i comment on every single pretty lady here and i even lie to the homely ones...she may have been one of the homely ones and doesnt know it.....she should remember that this site was started by an actual child of the 60s who regularly comments on young girls,,,,it is our right..we arent rude in any way...i have seen young guys use those immature mouth watering smilies with sexually based comments thousands of times here...it aint us old guys that are a problem here and you know it purp

 

welcome to the internet, jay. you are as worthless as every other poor soul on this vast series of tubes....that is until we find out you have a vagina. and then you are less than worthless unless you show tits.

yeah i definitely am guilty of the mouth water smiley move. it's a good one.

 

Look , I'm not even trying to make a debate , it's stupid & pointless.
I don't want drama over something that's not even relevant to my topic.

 

Do you not want drama?

We aren't making a debate. Just a point. It's the internet. If you post pictures, expect comments. And also expect weird old dudes to probably fap over them. Yes even I (as a dude) go through the thought process of "I wonder how many boners this pic will get?"


As far as dating. It goes like this -> get a little older -> get fake ID -> go to bars -> get bought alcohol -> have a shallow conversation with some guy you think is cute -> have the same internet exchange of old dudes asking for tits

 

A year isn't even that long to be honest... people "forget how to date" after being married or in a serious relationship for many years, not just one... I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year now, and i'm pretty sure i haven't forgotten anything, after all.. what is there to even remember? Just go out and meet new people, that's literally all there is to it...

 

pretty much.

you forgot all the ass-rape and kitten murder, but those are only minor details.

 

A year + ( 6 months) was long for me .
I've never been out with a dude for that long ,
my relationships raged from 4months to that 1yr + one ..
That's why it's somewhat hard for me , in a sense .
But thanks for your advice .. I guess.

 

Well... I see this is going nicely.


Anyways, OT... Ortus covered it pretty well. You just need to get out there, mix with people and be yourself.... Being yourself is the most important part.



Oh, and stay away from us "old dudes"... we're creepy. :rofl:

 

^ Thanks .
" Being yourself is the most important part " .

 

she's skinny.

therefore, she doesn't need to know how to date. she just has to be visible to men and actually agree to date one of them when they approach her.

preferably, she could be straightforward with him and not play silly games, but i'm sure that's asking too much.

 

i have a penis

i have to eat meat, drink more beer than everyone, have lots of money, be kind and considerate yet still know how to get the sex i know i deserve, because i'm manly

 

I'm fat. What advice do you have for me?