Hello, my name is Emma and I'm completely new to this forum!! I have some issues with my wife and i really need to tell someone... We have been together almost 1 year and everything has been so great, almost like a dream. This is also the first lesbian relationship I've ever had and I've given up everything for her, even my family.. because I love her so much... And even though we've barely been together 1 year, I decided to marry her, so she could stay here in Sweden with me. She's also a bipolar NOT on any medication but she's going to the doctor as soon as she gets her papers. But now I feel that she's drifting apart from me, she's so distant.. I feel like she doesn't love me any more, I see all the things I'm doing for her but it seems like i don't exist in her world anymore... And yet, it's always my fault when something happens. Last night I stayed up crying for one hour after we had a huge fight and the only thing she said was "can't you cry in another room?" After that we "made up" but i still don't feel like she meant it. This has NEVER happened before and I'm really wondering what's going on... I feel almost humiliated in this relationship and I don't know what to do any more... I don't know if I should break up since this is the first time this is happening... Any answers will be much appreciated!
bipolar disorder and depression in general will do that to a person. Makes them lifeless and careless in general. I've been fighting it for over a year now and my husband has questioned our marriage a few times over it. He has moments where he thinks I don't love him anymore. I'm sure she loves you, but she does need some help.
