First threesome SOS!

My gf agreed to have a threesome with me and another girl (I know awesome rite) but I have no idea at all how to "deal with" two girls at once or how to even ask a second girl to join plz help this is my once in a life time and I don't want to screw it up

 

alcohol will help.

 

She doesn't drink

 

the fact is, unless these two chicks are seriously into other girls, someone is going to get left out some of the time.
the way I see it, in a threesome, all of the people involved should either be giving or getting at all times.

 

I presume Gummybear 7665 has a suitable girl either he or his girlfriend knows that just 'may' be interested in a 3 some, or is he hoping to find one somehow?

 

Well see I think my gf may be bi but not admited it yet I can see it in the way she looks at girls and acts around them like there is a serious unspoken sexual tension in the room when there is a hot girl present any thought as to what to do to get her to at least experiment with the other girl just to see if she likes it?

 

I really want her friend to be the third but idk what my girl would think lol

 

Ask her what she thinks of a girls figure etc & see how she responds & if she would like to see her nude?
Maybe she just looks at others because she likes the clothes they wear & that she hasn't got any similar herself?

 

It's different she kinda bites her lip and tenses up when i point out a hot girl to her she acts almost as if she is pretending to be upset, i know how she acts when shes upset and this is different but I think it turns her on

 

Anyway more on topic how do I get my girls bff to be the third person? Any ideas?

 

cocaine.. or Ecstasy or both..

 

Ok, I misunderstood your post. your girlfriend agreed to have a hypothetical threesome but you dont actually have a second girl lined up to partake?

 

Sounds to me like you guys might want to learn to communicate better before you go through with doing something like this. It's importent if you want things to be cool after the fact. You think she might be bi, but don't know? If you guys trust each other and are secure this is something you should be able to talk about. You are going to want to know what is cool and not cool before it happens for things to be good for all involved.

 

[Sounds to me like you guys might want to learn to communicate better before you go through with doing something like this.]

This hits it directly on the head.

Learn to openly talk to each other first. What you think, she is thinking, is just a waste of time.

 

Ask her friend discreetly if she knows of any of your girl friends fantasies she's told her about? She may have just the right answers your wanting! Or, as another thought, place some magazines of nude girls around so your girlfriend will see them & if you just happen to be in the right place at the right time (?) you may find her having a peep at them - her thinking your elsewhere! Then one subject may arise that gives you the best chance for her or you to open up?

 

I'd say you should try with a stranger the first time. I have a lot of friends who have said that doing with with someone close takes a lot of trust. Just a thought.

 

Yes , but where would / how would you suggest this guy gets a willing partner ?
Prostitute (also known as escorts in NZ) or in an advertisements column?

 

Ask your girl if she's bi ask her to get the bff for the threesome. Talk about what she's willing to do or not do and same with the bff.

 

Yes I agree with TheSamantha , but I would suggest when asking the girlfriend if she's bi, that it's asked in a very deliacte type of way thou. Then If both girls agree & the guy to what they are willing to do , then theres maybe a small chance they get so very aroused in what they do or see & do a lot more sexually out of their own comfort zones than they would have originally planned / agreed to?

 

When I have sex with my two co-workers one is doing me and the other ill be blowing..