Bf likes shemales but happy without it?

Him want dick give it to him girl don't be stingy give him what he wants or someone else will

 

First of all, i would like to thank you for all your replies.
Second, I have an update to the situation.

I reached a point where I said I am willing to try using a strap-on and/or toys on him. We havent tried this yet as he is still too nervous, but he was very happy (and surprised) that I agreed to try it. We have also since tried involving porn in our sexual relationship (we had a rule where he wouldn't watch it while i was at home). So far we have only done this twice - I give him pleasure while he watches porn. The first time, it was very awkward (but still pleasurable for him). But we then did it a second time, which was far less awkward, and we also talked a bit more about the topic.
The reason we have started to involve porn is because he admitted that it is a regular craving. He said he is physically satisfied, but not mentally. I guess this started the worry that he will always need porn because i can't give him the sexiness-arousal factor of a shemale, because i'm not one =P But that does kinda sound crappy, NEEDING regular porn just to keep him satisfied? Or no?

I also want to admit that I used to dislike the fact he likes shemales, and as harsh as it sounds, I loved every part of him EXCEPT that part. But I recently told him that I think he is a fantastic person, including his shemale interest - and i meant every word.

But I guess I am struggling with the part where he said "I want to try sexual things with an actual shemale." He has still said he is happy with me, despite me being a girl, and doesn't intend to leave me or cheat etc - he still says he would rather be with me than go and 'seek out' a shemale just to see what it's like.

I have found out that he only watches (and thinks about) shemales now - however he also says he is certain that he is still attracted to girls. It just seems to be becoming some sort of fixation, because he doesn't even fantasize about girls anymore, and I'm wondering if this is going to continue until the day he actually tries it (if he ever does). (If genders is the right word, i'm not sure.) It's making me feel a bit...redundant.

My question is, long term, if we occasionally use a strap-on, would this really be enough to keep him satisfied? Or would he eventually become so fixated on the curiosity of shemales that he doesn't even feel turned on by anything else (i.e. me) anymore? Does he need to just go and try it for his interests to 'level out', so that he fantasizes about shemales AND girls? I ask this because obviously i can't get to grips with the fascination (and it doesnt help that all i've read in forums is that shemales are better because they are more feminine and sexy - what a way to make me feel more secure lol)

This fear of him eventually telling me i don't give him enough pleasure as a female - it's tormenting me every day and it's going to destroy our relationship. And i know that if i can't sort this issue out in my head, i need to leave.

 

P.S. The main reason i want to say thank you to everyone - it is only after your responses that i seriously considered it fully enough to offer him the porn and strap-on etc. I guess I'm concerned because his interest started as "i think i only like shemale porn because i can relate to the penis being pleasured" and now it is "i believe i'm attracted to shemales, AND i want to try things with one." So i'm scared that it will progress more, e.g. to the point where he says "okay i'm too curious/tempted by shemales to stay with a girl for the rest of my life"

by the way, if i am still sounding ridiculously paranoid, just say so.

 

I'm sorry to be so crude,but the man obviously wants some stick pussy.

 

U said exactly the only advise I could give you

 

No one can predict what he (or anyone else, really) will do in the future. As far as him experiencing a shemale, first he would have to find one that was willing. It may be such an intense fantasy for him because it is so unlikely to happen.

If you are being open minded and he is still contemplating looking outside of your relationship for sexual pleasure, then perhaps you need to decide how much of his 'fantasies' you are willing to accept. It is good that you have taken what has been said here and really thought about it. BUT...there is only so much you can do/change for a partner, and it seems that you have done a lot.

As for being paranoid, you're not being any more paranoid than most people would be...who have been told that their partner would like to experience someone else.

 

First off as for T-Girls, you are talking roughly 1 in 4000, so if half of them think like your'e boyfriend, and they do,then 1 T Girl for 2000 regular Joe Schmows.

Real life is very very different to what most people assume. Your boyfriend is only going to be able to achieve contact with one in the pay by the hour version. There boyfriends are usually 8 foot tall cos they need more protection than girls do. And NO T-Girl is going to want to be with a guy that wants to be with her cos its all a bit freaky. Zero chance of him leaving you for one

Secondly and more importantly, you have to control pretty much every part of his life?, everyway he thinks?, this is what fucks it up for you girls 99% of the time.

Just cos he and all the other guys dont really bother arguing with you on this subject, cos you'll get upset or fake getting upset, tears flow, oh there there or just nag. Doesnt actually mean they fall for all this garbage. NO ONE is going to believe you dont fantasize about other guys, NO ONE is going to believe you dont think about other guys when he's on top of you. Or girls in this case

Or are you worried he'll eventually find your secret stash of gay porn?

 

get out now OP, if he likes tranny porn then he likes getting it up the ass

or just buy him some dvd's of bailey jay