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Gee, I didn't even know that you were in this conversation. Thanks for making a noise.

Etherea disagrees with you, by the way.

 

Kenny, you can do what you will with your tongue, bite it or not, but do not attempt to put words in my mouth.

Ever.

Also, you're really close to flaming me and that is not cool. Fuck off of me.

 

What words do you believe that I tried to put into your mouth? Maybe you could be a little less nebulous with your statement and we could try to be on the same page.

I read exactly what you said.

So, now what are you talking about. Specifically.

I read what she stated that her ex- told her on the phone too.
Do you agree with him that there is nothing that she can do about it???
Be specific!

You are accusing me. Be specific.

 

Kenny, please, no need to start getting nasty or bringing people down. Happy house, not angry house, please.

I'm grateful for your concern, honestly, but some of the suggestions just arent plausible.

I'm not sitting back and being the victim. I'm actually on my way to seek legal advice and sort this all out. The 'female idea' that Aeri has supposedly been enforcing, that doesn't exist. This has nothing to do with being a female, nothing like that at all.

I'm sorry, this is my problem, didn't mean to drag everybody else in on it.

 

You've done nothing wrong, MamaPeace. You didn't drag anyone into anything. Those that had something they wanted to offer did. That's what we're here for.
:love:

 

Hi all
I stumbled across this forum tonight and am so glad I found it.
Like most everyone else, I have struggled over the last couple of years. I am so ready to make some real like minded friends especially in AZ.
If anyone can help me connect with the AZ Rainbow family that would be amazing.
I am involved in the 2012 Evolution and have waited for this time for many years.

Love and Light
In Lak'ech

 

This argument is really not helping MamaPeace and Babyp. Nobody has said she is a victim and can do nothing to help herself. She has an appointment with Housing Benefit (who will pay most of her rent) for tomorrow and she is going to CAB (free legal advice) this afternoon.) Mama is not relying on her ex and is not being a victim, she is working towards getting help for herself and her baby. Mama and I will talk tonight and I will try to tell her what her rights are in the UK (which are different than in the States) and make some suggestions about what she can do next. Her possessions are not going to end up in a dump and nobody is going to take her child away from her. With the love and support of this House, she will be able to work things out.

We need to pull together on this one.

 

Hi, Kudos. Welcome. There is a section of the forum dedicated to The Rainbow Family. You might find more connections to AZ through there: Here's the link to that section: http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/forumdisplay.php?f=64

 

"It's difficult to hire anyone when you're trying to take care of yourself and your child on your own. You have to rely on what help is offered for free.

Here's a suggestion. Listen as well as speak."

And in the POST just before that you stated that free (the Sheriff) doesn't work.

So, what are you saying????

You said free doesn't work.

"…Rely on free."
"It's difficult to hire anyone…" You didn't say impossible. I grant you that.


"…when you're trying to take care of yourself and your child on your own." You interprete for us exactly what you meant, or were trying to imply, by including that conditional clause.

So, what are you saying?

 

I'm saying "Fuck off of me".

 

Kenny..... Don't make me flame your a$$, you certainly are asking for it.



Just chill...

 

Welcome Kudos. You can hang here any time. Whether or not you find any Rainbow in AZ.

I've looked in the rainbow space and there's not much. You will probably need to e-mail or call somebody to get any real specific information.

Anything in Rainbow AZ in really old and vague but you might find one phone number.

Good luck and come back and hang out.

 

What does flame mean?? Really. I don't get it.

 

I don't think that people here should get mean. And I don't get why they are being mean at me.

MamaPeace and I were having pages of helpful and real and constructive chat. All by ourselves. Alone. We were talking about how much it all cost to live where she is and I was comparing for her what it costs in the U.S. because she asked. Then I showed what she could get for what she was paying were I live.

We were talking about whether she could afford to live where she is.

Etherea came by and agreed.
She talked about afford and reality.

Stillcrazy came along and tried to help with some legal, that she knew.

It was all pretty pragmatic.

I not the bad guy here because others popped in and had not read all of what was being discussed here.

 

Apparently you missed the part about me biting my tongue. I am not even saying that I disagree with you about some things. Mama does need to find a place that she can afford. She is smart and she knows this. She is seeking help. Several of your posts are far from helpful.

What I disagree with mainly is the condescending and insulting way your posts come across and the fact that you need to say the same thing over and over and over like some kind of broken record.

PS I read all of your words that is why I was biting my tongue. I had a private message with Mama.

 

Kenny... I did read it all.

You continually said, "Do the math" "So and so will do the math for you" which is a demeaning statement saying Mamapeace can't do math... Was that called for?

Then you attack my sister with, "Gee, I didn't even know that you were in this conversation. Thanks for making a noise. Etherea disagrees with you, by the way." Is this a proper way to address this? Seriously?

You were also coming very close to flaming Aerianne. You may not know what "flaming" means but you certainly know how to do it.

You need to lighten up and realize what you say and how you say it can and does hurt. You seem to not realize this. Not everybody lives in Kennyland you know...

 

You made the very first direct dig at me, with.

"Not all Americans live in the lap of luxury."

That was nasty and uncalled for. And completely out of the blue, for absolutely no reason.

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showpost.php?p=7327915&postcount=4089

EVERYBODY CLICK AND READ.

Regardesss
I was nice.
http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=451537&page=410

You chose to ignore me. (rude)

You were quiet for two pages and then you came back with your snide cut.

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showpost.php?p=7328041&postcount=4120

I don't see how I'm supposed to be the bad guy. I thingk that the shoe is on the other foot, here.

 

Ethera and I were both trying to make the point the £600 per month income doesn't cover £800 per month rent plus £150 Gov tax each month. Something that MamaPeace had P.M.ed to Me.
Electric and and gas and water and sewer.

Not EVERYONE reading was up to date with what she and I had really been discussing.
She Sent me 2 very length PMs and I had sent her 2 very lengthy PMs. We were at that time the only ones on-line and the only ones having a conversation. And very money and facts detailed P.M.s.

This was very practically a very private conversation.

No one could be in on the whole conversation know matter what they saw on the thread.

And at the time it was just she and me alone.

 

Very sadly, this house has gone the way of every communal house I've ever lived in, and I'm having problems dealing with the unpleasant atmosphere. I'm taking the greyhounds out for the day and I'm not convinced we'll be coming back. Love and hugs to all.

 

Yes, but the point isn't how much I have or need to pay, the point is I can't pay and need help in order to. I know that, alone, I have no chance of staying here, I'm capable of working that out. I don't think you listened when I wrote about the way pur benefits system works, that I am entitled to having enough help to pay most of my rent, its the time it is taking for that help to be processed and recieved that is the problem. Which is why I'm seeking legal advice and speaking with stillcrazy later tonight to see where I stand before it gets to the point of becoming homeless.

Everyone was just trying to help, as much as you, but I feel like you started attacking people and getting angry and nasty which was uncalled for.

Spectacles didn't dig at you, she was explaining her situation just as you were explaining yours. Aerianne wasn't digging at your either, again she was explaining from her own experience how things don't always work, whether the support is free or not. Neither were rude to you but I feel as though you were rude to them in return. Everyones situation is completely different, for one person it may be straight forward easy and for others it has its complications and downfalls.

I think we should put this behind us, kiss and make up, its not worth losing friends over. I think there were some misinterpretations in the conversation, maybe because me and you Kenny had a pm conversation before and it got jumbled up in everything else here.