I got what I want for a fuck buddy how do I keep it that way?

I have been wanting a fb for a while I find that if I'm too 'available' they go elsewhere for too long and I have to find another. I have an exceptionally high sex drive and need/want it often so I have more than 2. I have been chatting to a guy and finally asked him over he came over 2 nights ago then he came back last night now he wants to come over again tonight. I really want to see him and he really does it for me! But I don't want to become to available again. I don't like headfuck games I hate them, but it seems like nature if your always around they know your the back up fb when the can't get someone else. I'm still learning from all this I'm not sure how to handle it or even if I'm viewing this right. should I put him off tonight to keep him keen. I really don't care what he does if he sees others I get the nsa idea but I'm not sure the best way to do this.. I'd like to see him regulary without him disapearing for months on end before he decides to come back. help please?? Thanks xx

 

If you're just fuckbuddies, why do you care so much about playing these games? Seeing someone regularly is sort of like a significant other? It seems like you don't just want a fuckbuddy, but a loyal one.

 

you might be right.. I'm unsure what I want but def don't want a relationship. So I'm guessing a fb is a one night stand? It's just the sex I'm wanting from someone on a regular basis. I don't want to play games. I just find that if I'm always around they go away for too long

 

Just be honest with them then? I doubt anyone who is into fuck buddies would deny regular sex!

 

Thanks for your reply. That's true. I've got another issue now I've posted so I might be looking for a new one :-S

 

Don't play any games. If you like it, you like it. You would think a fb would feel mutual. If it fades because of this "availability" bullshit, then it isn't meant to be. I had one for 7 months....we would meet about monthly, and a few times it was a bit more often. It's been nearly 2 months now, and I think it has run it's course. I think that is the nature of fbs.