I "want" him...him I "Want" !

Hi everyone
I'm a new member out here, hope I'll get some friends

here is my problem :

I'm working for this company for almost 10 months now, and I'm pretty happy about my situation at work. The thing is : during the first 3 months, I noticed this guy who's working in another team and I liked him.
Since I wasn't ready for any relationship or interrested in getting involved with anyone (Was hurt actually!), I didn't give him any GOOD signals.

He was: Staring, Smiling, being jealous, being at the same place at the same time, saying hello (and me sometimes not even responding!)...etc.

Then, I just ignored him ! I wasn't interested, busy with my own shitty life !

After those 3 months, here is a new manager who comes ! (his manager !) At that point I added him on facebook and started sending him messages. Since, I didn't know what to talk about and the whole situation was awkward, I was just talking about JOB JOB JOB.

He expressed his interest, I remember one day I wasn't at work and he told me : Yeah I noticed you weren't there.
And Asking if I was ok when I was ill.

He didn't initiate any of this convo but I believe it's initially my fault since I was rough with him and rude.

So...what ? I did a huge mistake : The new manager happens to be the best friend of my co worker. And I told them ABOUT my crush, since that day she's been all over him, seducing him...showing off her breast and doing sexy poses in front him at work.

He stopped responding to messages on FB !

I was mad, angry at the girl and I hate to believe she took him from me (Actually he's not mine and not hers, I shouldn't feel that way)

She's always with him at coffee breaks, taking lunches together...etc. But I believe...he's not that into her, even though my collegue (her best friend) told me he likes her too (she's telling me to back off by saying that ^^'). Why do I think that ?
She always after him, jealous as hell of me and always looking if I'm there at the same time as him...why is she treathened by me ????

Now, I just can't get over him....I ignored him on facebook and in real life.
But I want him...I don't want anything romantic, I WANT HIM !
(He's still staring at me but I can't figure out what he thinks about me)

Just ONCE, only ONE TIME I know, it sounds weird from a girl to say that but since I don't know him very well, I can't ask him that directly on FB.

Plus it's not that serious between the two of them. (I guess)

I just want him once and she can have him after that !
It's not a revenge thingy, I feel like she took a candy from me and I didn't get the time to taste it BIATCH


PLEAASE what do I do ????

 

Don't fuck people you work with. Don't fuck OPP. Grow up.

 

Don't stick your dink in the company sink.

 

too late.

 

Well she's taking a bigger risk than me !
I'm not even his co worker.
We aren't working in the same departement.
She's his boss

So...I can mess up, she can't

 

Hello,

as a poet you suck , but you speak the truth.

Regards
Gyro

 

Ok I got that but...Still, I can't resist the temptation !
Come on, Am I the only human left out here ?

 

Hello,

no, you are not alone. There are millions of people getting fired sooner or later for fucking their coworkers .

Regards
Gyro

 

In my company there is no law that forbidens that ! and as I said, she's taking a bigger risk than mine by getting involved with him.

and HE IS NOT my co worker, she's his BOSS. It's even worst

Can I have him ?

 

Hello,

nope, no coworkers for FlowerParadise today .

Regards
Gyro

 

Ok, so i'm being impulsive.
Let's think about the consequences ?!

1- He talks about me and tells every guy he knows that we did it -Bad ! I'll get a horrible reputation-

2 - He just doesn't say anything but she feels something wrong and he tells her (I doubt it, it doesn't seem they got that kind of relationship)- War World III and she hates me even more...makes my reputation looks even worst than ever-

3- He's not stupid and nobody knows. I'm safe and He got to do whatever he wants to do + I won't get involved with him again. END OF THE STORY

hum....

So ?

 

Hello,

usually I like my jobs and my coworkers. I would not like to quit a job neither would I like my work life to become hell because of a 'fucking incident' with a coworker. For me the ratio of risk and outcome is too bad.

What makes you sure that it is really the end of the story after the fun? Want to leave the country ?

Regards
Gyro

 

what ? you mean I'll fall in love and ...etc.

Ok, I'll calm down and try to open up my mind....

 

Still..
Im not convainced

 

Hello,

yepp, that or something else happens. Companies change, bosses change, etc.

Regards
Gyro

 

Hello,

Regards
Gyro

 

No, seriously.

I'll think about it. (Even though I'm not convainced ^^)

 

Hello,

suuuuuure you do .

Regards
Gyro

 

you did him a favor. i'm sure he's always been interested in his "friend," the boss, but he never stood a chance with her until she found out he had a chance with you.

accept that you did a good deed and leave it at that.

 

heuuu

I was there before her.
Sure I did him a favor ? sounds unfair : /